"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Time between plates

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So I am about to embark on a journey between London and Paris. Partly because I have never been, partly because I can retrace the steps of one of my heros, Benjamin Franklin, and partly to bang.

So as of right now I have 10 ladies between [HB]7-10 who are willing to take time off of work, pay for their own visa and travel arrangements to meet me there. 10 right now but there number is increasing by the week and I am only planning to travel for 2-3 weeks. Some will flake, but I dont think all will.

My question is how much time do you think I should spend on each plate? 1 day/night seems too short. 3 seems optimal but that means I will only be able to be with about 4. That would be a tragedy too.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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