"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Tim Tebow, Heisman Trophy a true hero.

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Too bad more athletes could not be more like him. I am not referrring to his athletic ability but it seems the guy does not let power and fame go to his head.


The legend of Tebow started at Nease High School in Ponte Vedra Beach, Fla., where he once finished a game playing on a broken leg.

Homeschooled by missionary parents who run an orphanage in the Philippines, Tebow took advantage of a Florida state law to play for Nease, about 90 miles from the University of Florida campus.

Tebow has worked and preached at his parents' orphanage since he was 15. He regularly speaks at schools and delivered his message of faith at a prison in Florida earlier this year.

"Tim Tebow is the real American hero," said Tebow's high school football coach, Craig Howard. "He's the real deal."
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What's so special about an athlete who gives all the credit for his accomplishments to a judgmental ghost? His overt humility is cute in a child-like sort of way, but before it was all over, I almost wanted to gag during that speech. Had I not actually been looking at him, I would have thought a 12-year old was talking at that podium.

Does he seem like a nice guy? Yeah sure. But we have plenty of literature here on what being a nice guy will get you.
 

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azanon said:
What's so special about an athlete who gives all the credit for his accomplishments to a judgmental ghost? His overt humility is cute in a child-like sort of way, but before it was all over, I almost wanted to gag during that speech. Had I not actually been looking at him, I would have thought a 12-year old was talking at that podium.

Does he seem like a nice guy? Yeah sure. But we have plenty of literature here on what being a nice guy will get you.
Maybe you are just a little envious that you are not Tim Tebow yourself.

My whole point is this: Many athletes let their power and prestige go to their head. This guy does not and I respect him for it!!
 

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Milfhunter77 said:
Maybe you are just a little envious that you are not Tim Tebow yourself.
Gain all the money he's gonna make in a year, for his level of naiveness? I dunno; not sure I'd make that trade. Money's overrated once you have enough to be comfortable and do the things you like.

My point is that its a little hard to be conceited when you're the best football player in college football. Conceit/arrogance deals with overestimation of one's worth. His worth is accurately pretty damn high.

What an accomplishment just to end up letting your mouth give the credit to something that doesn't even exist!
 
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Darren McFadden should have won.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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shop until I die! said:
Darren McFadden should have won.
Yup. And he would have credited his teammates and the coach; not the air and the sky, and baby Jesus.
 
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Yup. And he would have credited his teammates and the coach; not the air and the sky, and baby Jesus.
I'd like to thank my Lord and Savior for allowing me to find SoSuave. I know he died so I can post on this site.
 

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azanon said:
Yup. And he would have credited his teammates and the coach; not the air and the sky, and baby Jesus.

I guess someone is an atheist. That is interesting since there are a plethora of Southern Baptists where you are. They are the most high of the holy rollers.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Milfhunter77 said:
I guess someone is an atheist. That is interesting since there are a plethora of Southern Baptists where you are. They are the most high of the holy rollers.
Correct on both accounts.
 

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Didn't you hear? As big of an a--hole as I am, even I have to admit, fame and (future) wealth trump AFC behavior.

Tebow is pullin' em! lol!
I didn't mean to suggest he can't pull women. Sure he can. With the kind of money (and power) he's gonna be looking at, plus his looks, he can act whatever way he wants.

I'm just saying women and money isn't everything. I shudder at the thought of living an ignorant and naive life, under any circumstances. Knowledge and wisdom is truly priceless.

But you see that hottie in that pic? She'll have "half" someday soon; watch and see. Others will take advantage of him too. Guys (or women) like him are like prey to me.
 

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Any Florida college football player can pull a girl as good (or better) than that. And when I say Florida, I mean UF, Miami, FSU, UCF, USF, FIU, etc.
 

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Effington said:
Any Florida college football player can pull a girl as good (or better) than that. And when I say Florida, I mean UF, Miami, FSU, UCF, USF, FIU, etc.
Why just Florida schools?

Any half way decent looking and well known (QB, RB, FB, TE, WR, LB) D-1 college football player in any part of the country can get the 9's and 10's.

I went to a D III school that had a football program that was a powerhouse.

There was this guy I knew who was a starting linebacker at 6'2" and ripped. The guy was also a good-looking guy. I remember being at the bar one night where he was sitting at the actual bar. I swear to Christ there were about 10-12 ladies (mostly all hot) surrrounding the guy.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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That girl is hot I wonder what team will draft him he has a strong arm he could be the whit mike vick:)
 

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Effington said:
Any Florida college football player can pull a girl as good (or better) than that. And when I say Florida, I mean UF, Miami, FSU, UCF, USF, FIU, etc.
Most Florida females are fat. Stats don't lie. Most American females are overweight and Florida is not some magical place. With numbers like that I would rather be all alone in a bar.

It ranked 34th in the U.S. in highest rate of obese and overweight adults combined at 58.4 percent.
http://healthyamericans.org/reports/obesity2005/release.php?StateID=FL

My post will be ignored because it is backed up by fact. Nicer to believe that there are hot girls all around you, when in fact, there are mostly fat girls to the right and left of you. 40% are not overweight. Out of this 40% how many are ugly? How many are okay? How many are attractive? How many are amazing? When you break it down logically like I do you see why you should explore other options if you are a straight male.
 

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meitenesrigas said:
Most Florida females are fat. Stats don't lie. Most American females are overweight and Florida is not some magical place. With numbers like that I would rather be all alone in a bar.

It ranked 34th in the U.S. in highest rate of obese and overweight adults combined at 58.4 percent.
http://healthyamericans.org/reports/obesity2005/release.php?StateID=FL

My post will be ignored because it is backed up by fact. Nicer to believe that there are hot girls all around you, when in fact, there are mostly fat girls to the right and left of you. 40% are not overweight. Out of this 40% how many are ugly? How many are okay? How many are attractive? How many are amazing? When you break it down logically like I do you see why you should explore other options if you are a straight male.
These stats are bull. I guarantee you there are alot of girls out there who look good, but are overweight according to their BMI. I am NOT talking about obese women, but women who have a little added thickness to their legs, etc. I don't know about you, but ultra thin girls are not that sexy and it is a turnoff.

Also, I would like to know what % of these 64% of overweight/obese adults are in the age range of 18-35?

I guarantee, the majority of obese/overweight adults are in the 40-65 age range.

I don't know about you, but I don't see too many obese young people.

BTW, there are also very few ugly women out there. The only ugly people are the ones who are obese, have horrible looking noses or have a skeletal discrepancy between their upper and lower jaws.

Guess what, all of these are 100% correctable. The last two through surgery.

There is really NO excuse to be ugly these days.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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