bigjohnson
Master Don Juan
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Afganistan was meaningless? I thought that went pretty well.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Right on bro. lol! I was thinking the exact same thing. I've heard of worse frat initiations. I tried repping you but I guess the forum has decided that I need to spread the love before I give you anymore. lol!bigjohnson said:Wearing underwear on your head while being mocked by female soldiers is nt torture. In fact some Japanese businessmen pay big bucks for that sort of thing. Back on topic ...
Yes, it went pretty well the first couple of months after we invaded. Kinda like after we occupied Iraq, "Mission Accomplished", remember? As far as the Afagan situation is concerned, we are getting our a$ses handed there too.bigjohnson said:Afganistan was meaningless? I thought that went pretty well.
Ok, obviously you subscribe to the "Let's fight em there, so we don't have to fight 'em here" philosophy. Guy, there is a CIVIL WAR going on in Iraq and the neighboring countries? Have you not been notified? We invaded a foreign nation. There are riots, and bombings, and killings, and exectutions in Iraq. The civilians there would agree, they are living in not so good times.Deus ex Pianoforte said:What does the word "executed" have to do with the war? The OP jumped to conclusions and convicted the soldiers before we even have all the facts. Hardly "spin". And if this war was meaningless, there would be riots in the streets and most likely a WWIII.
Tillman wasn't killed in Iraq, haven't you paid attention? Or are you just warping this topic to suit yourself?Gangster Of Love said:Guy, there is a CIVIL WAR going on in Iraq and the neighboring countries? Have you not been notified?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.