"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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"Tie me up and fvck me..."

European-DJ

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So last night i bedded this girl whom ive been talking to for a week or so.

- After we finished up (she came and even squirted [she often does it] so i guess it was okay), she told me she would never imagine me being anything but 'passionate' in bed, she said i was very conservative and, well she didn't say it, but boring too.
She told me she would like to get tied up and fvcked, or just being dominated..

But mann, even when imagining doing those thing, i fell uncomfortable - even when Demanding a girl to suck my dvck, i fell uncomfortable; i usually just hint it very obviously..

whats your take on this guys? Could you image yourself just grabbing a girl in your bed, ripping her clothes of, tying her up, and ****ing her?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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floydb25

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Some girls are really aggressive and crazy. Most of the ones I knew who liked this stuff were *****es, *****s, or otherwise messed up in the head. They were raped, had low self esteem, daddy issues, hated themselves, etc. A lot of them wanted to be choked, thrown around, slapped, dominated, etc, and this agression / chaos wasnt limited to just the bedroom. They also loved drama, *****ing, being angry, fighting, etc. But sex was always on their mind. They also loved bad boys and jerks.

If its too much - dont do it. She's not the only girl in the world. You certainly shouldnt feel pressured into acting like a maniac - if thats not your thing. Dont try to live up to her standards, or feel not good enough for not doing so. *****es also critcize, demand, nitpick, judge, expect, voice their opinion without hesitation, etc.

Something tells me this girl is a *****. Hmmmmm...
 

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floydb25 said:
Some girls are really aggressive and crazy. Most of the ones I knew who liked this stuff were *****es, *****s, or otherwise messed up in the head. They were raped, had low self esteem, daddy issues, hated themselves, etc. A lot of them wanted to be choked, thrown around, slapped, dominated, etc, and this agression / chaos wasnt limited to just the bedroom. They also loved drama, *****ing, being angry, fighting, etc. But sex was always on their mind. They also loved bad boys and jerks.

If its too much - dont do it. She's not the only girl in the world. You certainly shouldnt feel pressured into acting like a maniac - if thats not your thing. Dont try to live up to her standards, or feel not good enough for not doing so. *****es also critcize, demand, nitpick, judge, expect, voice their opinion without hesitation, etc.

Something tells me this girl is a *****. Hmmmmm...

Thank you for the advice, but FYI, i have no emotions whatsoever to this girl... But the guys she is hanging around are gangmembers and "tuff guys". Some of these guys, honestly, i see as Alpha males - being dominant and taking control is something i would like to learn - why i keep sticking to this girl.

I am not going to rape anyone, but i believe every girl want a man to take her - and this is something i am uncomfortable with.. So was i when it came to talking to girls, today it is not a problem - people evolve.
 

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Girls want variety in the bedroom. Sometimes I'll pin her down and fvck her brains out. Sometimes I'll toss her all over the bed, and sometimes I'll be passionate and romantic. Last night I did something new - after I gave her the big O, I ordered her to turn over and said that I wasn't done with her yet. I grabbed some lotion and gave her a back masssage.

You need to make things interesting by changing them up. The girl shouldn't know what to expect when you drag her into the bedroom.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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AlexDP

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European-DJ said:
Thank you for the advice, but FYI, i have no emotions whatsoever to this girl... But the guys she is hanging around are gangmembers and "tuff guys". Some of these guys, honestly, i see as Alpha males - being dominant and taking control is something i would like to learn - why i keep sticking to this girl.

I am not going to rape anyone, but i believe every girl want a man to take her - and this is something i am uncomfortable with.. So was i when it came to talking to girls, today it is not a problem - people evolve.
Take her, yes. Tie her up and slap her.. No. Some girls like it, but I don't, so I'm not going to do it.
 

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European-DJ said:
... But the guys she is hanging around are gangmembers and "tuff guys". Some of these guys, honestly, i see as Alpha males

some of these will have banged her in the way she mentioned


- being dominant and taking control is something i would like to learn - why i keep sticking to this girl.

I am not going to rape anyone, but i believe every girl want a man to take her - and this is something i am uncomfortable with.. So was i when it came to talking to girls, today it is not a problem - people evolve.
the second part is a bit incongruent, you want to dominate but are uncomfortable with it?
she is practically begging you to dominate her, go for it ffs
 

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I think I could get into it. You're pretty lucky that she even tells you she wants to be handled rough.

I mean I'm usually not too rough with the girls because I'm nice and don't want to hurt them, but if she asks you to? Green light man, green light!
 

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Desdinova said:
...... you drag her into the bedroom.
That's the problem right there. Get out of the bedroom. Honestly, I can't imagine anything more boring nowadays, with any girl. Hotel, outside, my truck, anything is better than there. Except when I'm filming.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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she'll be trouble, in the end, and probably soon. She'll sic the cops on you, an ex or wannabe bf will want to screw you up, etc.
 

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twixt said:
she'll be trouble, in the end, and probably soon. She'll sic the cops on you, an ex or wannabe bf will want to screw you up, etc.
So true. Some years ago, a young roommate where I lived had a sicko GF who tied him up, blindfolded him, said she wanted to put a dildo in his ass, then brought in a fat fag to initiate him. Nothing he could do once it was a done deed, so they went out to Denny's together.
 
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