"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Thwarting LMR on a Number Close

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Nexus Polaris

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I've noticed that when I've been talking to a girl and it's come time to end the conversation, when I go in for the number close, I sometimes get met with last minute resistance even if the conversation has gone well. Generally, this happens with hotter girls.

Anyway, I've noticed that offering not to take it if she won't hang out seems to get her to to almost push it on you.



Example:

Nex - "Well, hey, give me your number. We'll go do something sometime."

HB8 - "Well, I'm usually pretty busy."

Nex - "Ah, well then in that case, nevermind. There's no point in me taking your number if we're not going to do anything." (then turn to leave)

HB8 - "No, no, it's cool! We'll do something. Here it is."
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Bobby.net

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:eek: really?
A simple "alright, then..." wouldn't even have worked, I'm sure.
So that outcome is totally against the obvious! LOL

Women...
 
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This should work, as long as the interest is high enough. She doesn't want to make it look like you got her too easily, so a little remark like that will push her over the edge and you'll get the digits.

Of course, it could totally backfire if she really isn't interested...

"Ah, well then in that case, nevermind. There's no point in me taking your number if we're not going to do anything."

"Ok bye."

Heheh.
 
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