"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i realised that this a good way to attract the hottest hbs. i have observed this and seen that the guys with thier pants low with the baseball cap front-back. are th ones that get the babes. they walk like they dont care. and have a mean look on thier faces. i observed this and these kind get more eyecontacts fromt the women.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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BAD BOY. It's called Bad Boy.... There is a fine like between niggas doing it and some white **** posing as one...... Read book called Bad Boys by Carrol Liberman.
 

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i see. so do the clothe's matter then?. like the baggy pants. my friends tell me to dress baggy and all but i hate it. im more your converse type wearing boy with straight jeans with a military jacket guy. i guess my look say's slob. but i love it.
 

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It's the way they act, definately not the clothes.

My ex gf used to be like a dog in heat whenever i wore a tight white t-shirt. And i had not a shred of muscle back then. Now i got a decent muscle tone, and i wore a tight t-shirt to this girls house, and she said i looked hot. So personally i think girls dig the fitted look alot more cuz i aint even built, just a little toned and they seem to love it. When im wearing a sweatshirt nobody ever looks at me. Unless ur overwight or chubby of course, then, then baggy might be the way to go.
 

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Well, how do you become a bad boy then? I mean, if you´re mean to everyone then you´ll have no friends and people will say you´re an a$$, right?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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i see i tell you the mean look like looking a girl in the eye like you gonna kill her works for me i think girls love the danger in that. probably not the clothes. but slobbing simple clothes attract them. like worn -out jeans and trainners. maybe the baggy clothes dont reall attract them like you said djtaining06. preppy boys come across as pussies, to some.
 

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Forshizzle nigga, us thugs are getting all da hoes!

If that style works for you than great. Just don't be suprised when people look at you and laugh.
 

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no you only aact tough when you pass girls you see you like look mean at them but not to mean. walk like a jerk.@chrizz. clothes play a role too. some say i dress skateboyish. meaning i couldnt care less (but infact these clothes were actually expensive) my $40 converse and worn-out jean eually 60 dollars that expensive to me anyway . the slapper look works .
 

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uhh...be real. if youre a thug then youll know it. its alrite to dress in urban clothes and stuff, i do, but i dont try to act like im all hard when im not. some girls like thugs (hoodrats...) but most jus like confident men
 

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unorthodox said:
BAD BOY. It's called Bad Boy.... There is a fine like between niggas doing it and some white **** posing as one...... Read book called Bad Boys by Carrol Liberman.
Again, another example of someone making a racial slur against whites, and nobody even noticing it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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if you wanna dress like a thug make sure you dont end up looking like a poser, then you will become the laughing stock of girls and boys alike instead of a cool guy.

dont try to be a thug if your not one.
 

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Thugs attract certain women, classy business men attract certain other women.

Personally I'm a business man ;) and I attract wall st. ho's. I never see a thuggish guy with the types of girls I go out with and attract. It does kinda suck tho that the thugs do get them big booty latina girls, one week i'll charade around as a thug and bang a little latin mami from the bronx :)


-Cod3r
 

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unorthodox said:
BAD BOY. It's called Bad Boy.... There is a fine like between niggas doing it and some white **** posing as one...... Read book called Bad Boys by Carrol Liberman.

nice, you racist.

god, i hate the stupid people on this board...
 

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I wouldn't wanna be posing anyway.

The style will work if you are that person. Dress thuggish if you are a thug, dress classy if you are classy. Work with what you got, and don't rely on threads to change peoples perception of you.

I couldn't imagine myself rockin' FUBU and stuff 'cause that just ain't me. I like fitted Tee's, I like wearin' Wife Beaters, and I like so dress clean and classy when i'm going out. It works because that's the kinda person I am.

Dress according to your game.
 

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Cod3r said:
Thugs attract certain women, classy business men attract certain other women.

Personally I'm a business man ;) It does kinda suck tho that the thugs do get them big booty latina girls, one week i'll charade around as a thug and bang a little latin mami from the bronx :)


-Cod3r
Reading this was like a train wreck, way off topic-given-many of you actually had intelligent responses, cam is right on point, but this seems to be turning into more of a race issue.

By the way cod 'the latin mami from the bx' will probably be laughing her ass off at you.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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By the way cod 'the latin mami from the bx' will probably be laughing her ass off at you.
I laugh at them everyday with their hoop earings with their names in them and jordan's on with 6 kids, so we'd be even ;)


-Cod3r
 

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I see the maturity level is very low here when we have to result to stereotypes. It really shows a compete lack of character.
 

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dress according to the girls you want to PU...If you dress like a thug, dont be suprised if you get sterotyped and might have to back it up every now and then...kinda like that Chappelle stand up bit where he talks about dressing up like a policeman.

Anyways if you look at the media portrayal of most thugs, they buy their way into panties..listen to most rappers. Some are saying hard d!ck and bubblegum but a lot are talkin bout grey goose, kush and shopping sprees
 

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gangsterrrrrrrrrrrr!

clothing and attitude are very diff.
 

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Mr_knowit_all said:
Again, another example of someone making a racial slur against whites, and nobody even noticing it.
Or... maybe no one cares.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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