"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Throwing myself off a bridge right now...

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Hi guys, serious advice needed...

2 issues or events I'd like you to give opinion on...

Event A) - GF goes out to club and leaves me at home babysitting her 8 year old son. I asked her to stay in with us both as I'm not big on clubbing. Her attitude was one of 'I'm not staying in and being told what to do by any man' so she went out. Whilst away her 8 yr old boy sh!TS the bed, nightmare clean up for a kid who isn't even mine for an hour....

What would you guys have thought/done? Did I have a right to be p11ssed at this situation?

Event B) - in a supposed loving, committed relationship of 9 months am dumped by GF after getting drunk and saying how I really feel. Including the occurance in Event A. She then places all blame on me and I chase her like a fool for 4 weeks. I go NC which she breaks after 10 days. I f close her 5 times, but somehow feel strangely hollow and used...

Opinions, be brutal...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You need to re-evaluate, as a MAN, why you would stay home and watch another man's child while your "GF" is out at a club.

I'd die laughing if a chick even suggested that. She was probably laughing at you with her friends as she swallowed back shot after shot.
 

Kbomb

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Big Nuts said:
You need to re-evaluate, as a MAN, why you would stay home and watch another man's child while your "GF" is out at a club.

I'd die laughing if a chick even suggested that. She was probably laughing at you with her friends as she swallowed back shot after shot.
of sperm from another dude. This woman is poison. Get away from her. You must have very low self-esteem which is something that can be reversed.

Unfortunately, in your current state a women like this is the only one you deserve. Begin to heal all the damage done by your family/society and to rebuild yourself. Our beings are molded by intention, will and effort. Begin that process.
 

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First off, don't throw yourself off a bridge.

Second, stop banging this chick and move on. And never put up with (A) again. She used you, so no, she won't respect you for doing that.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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foreverAFC

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hahaha man wtf, you are sitting at home babysitting another dudes kid while the chick is out clubbing and dancing with other dudes????

W
T
F

you better not have cleaned up any of that kids **** either, that should have been left for the skank baby momma to come home to after she was done with her night out clubbing

this thread is full of AFC on many different levels
 

Dust 2 Dust

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Women with boyfriends that they love and respect don't go clubbing. This would be an insta-dump if she tried that with me.
 

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Yeah, pack your **** up and make for Mexico as fast as your legs will carry you. I dunno about guys who choose to take care of another guy's DNA... why? These are her mistakes AND she dumps you.... a guaranteed FREE babysitter for life and she dumps YOU, she must be ONE dumbass broad. If her kid is sh1tting the bed at 8 y/o, this chick has major issues she's passing on to her son and will probably be passing them on to you next. Get out of there.

Sickening what men will do for poossy
 

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dude this is nothing.. you will be fine..

just wait till she comes home. ( kids welfare first.) then just grab your **** and leave. pretty easy one there.

if i was you i would already be packed up..
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Next time she asks you that start hysterically laughing and mumble *psycho b1tch* under your breath as you walk out her house!
 

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Past couple of days been getting e mailed from a fake POF profile and I'm 99% sure, judging from the lack of punctuation, spelling errors and overuse of lols that its her.

Any particular reason why any normal minded woman would do this?
She really that dull?
She missing me that much?
She really got that much time on her hands with 4 kid?

Blocked her on f book, and had to ask her dad to delete my number from her phone....

Any ideas??
 

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Ignore, dude.

Yes, she needs you. Because she can't find any other slave around.

Get a life and ignore her.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hyper2010 said:
Opinions, be brutal...
You are a chump. You've been on this site for 3 years and it's obvious that you've learned absolutely nothing. No self-respecting man would ever find himself in Scenario A. Also, the girl clearly has no respect for you (and it's hard to blame her, considering that you have no respect for yourself).

Hey, you wanted a brutally honest opinion.
 

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this has to be a troll even the nicest guy would see through this, close thread.
 

Bokanovsky

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Smok1nAce said:
this has to be a troll even the nicest guy would see through this, close thread.
Yeah, I'm starting to think the same thing.
 

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This is a DEFCON 4 NC situation.

Destroy your cell phone immediately. Delete and change all your emails.

NC to the Nth°!!!
 
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