"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Throwing a party, but not at home?

Tortendieb

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Hey guys, I'm leaving the country and want to throw a farewell party for my friends, but I can't do at my place because my flatmates won't allow me... plus we have a white carpet :D

...so any good idea where I could go for the party? I mean I don't want to rent out a bar, it's not going to be that big.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Konada

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Roll up the white carpet and party. How hard is that?
 

Tortendieb

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Forget the frickin carpet, as I wrote can't do at my house!
 

Drdeee

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LAN party, you all sit at your own homes and party.

Russian wilderness party, you go to wilderness, roast meat and drink vodka.
 
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