Thrill's Ill Field Report/HS Junior/FEEDBACK APPRECIATED

[Thrill]

Hey guys the names Thrill, I'm 16, a junior in HS, and I reside in South FL.

I'm gnna keep it short so I dont bore you.

I started the game a lil over a year ago when I saw Styles' book. I wrongly used that as my manual(I never knew about the Venusian Arts or even Mystery) which detail wise is dull but experience wise its rich. So I set up a game plan of my to get a gf by last winter break(which at the time was a month away). It was painstaking to start as my only connection to PUA was The Game. Fast forward I did not meet my goal but the pressure forced me out of my comfort zone so from there my learning rate accelerated greatly. Back to the present.

I am a completely diff person(I hear it all the time) than I was a yr ago. I have made numerous approaches and I have gained alot of experience. I have never kissed a girl but it was bcaz I screwed up. I hvnt had a gf but I can feel that my time is near(lol, overly dramatic). I am not popular but people do know me since I rapped at my skools pep rally last yr. I find that I need to work on my humor and being able to hold convos w/ everyone.

Field Report 11/23/2009 Monday

Started off normal. I chilled a bit w/ some peeps I kno, didnt talk much. Then I studied for a test.

1st hour
Test

2nd hour

I was talkin to my teacher w/ 2 other peeps nd ths girl Lousie(im not using real names) comes up nd starts messin w/ the back of my shirt. I wait then turn nd she smiles nd mumbles sumthin. Then I turn back nd she moves to my left nd listens to the teacher. She then lightly steps on my foot nd I just gave her a dismissive glance nd shut her out again(shes a known flirt nd i hate flirts, im just her friend). After this she leans on my friend to the left nd thts tht.

Lunch
I chill at my usual table. W/ my best friend we'll call him Bravo, nd 5 other friends(males). There are the usual 3 girls but I only make small talk w/ one of them. Then I chill.(I normally do cold approaches w/ Bravo, last week we talked to 3 new girls, but today he was kinda distant to me so I withdrew from him to shut him down,kinda like push pull)

3rd hour
nuthin

4th hour

This hb7,Alexis, came late nd since i sit nxt to the door i let her in. As i sit down she says sumthin, then she repeats it nd says,"I like your shirt"(I was wearing a batman logo T). I lamely replied, "Thx." As soon as that happened I realized it was an IOI but the teacher started class, so Ill check into that later. Kinda kept to myself throught class since my friend gina's in puerto rico. A couple weeks ago we were given assigned seats so i sit nxt to the left of this HB8.5, gina, After a few classes of not saying nething I heard her mumble something,"uhhh I dnt get this at all" so I leeched on the oppourtunity for convo nd busting her on tht. I dnt remember what was said but I did hve a pretty smooth convo going. The class after i had the chance to talk but I pussied out. Then I started talking to her nd found out shes kool(as soon as i started talkin i realized tht shes not so intimidating after all, in fact shes very self conscious.) So last week we were talkin,the convo flowed, nd i played this game were i touch an objet then she does. It got pretty amusing nd my friend behind me, nico, was laughing his ass of. The game got boring bcaz she gave up(i touched the teachers laptop) nd she told me about her going to puerto rico. Nd wouldnt be back till tues. tom.
Im wondering if the nxt time i see her(wed., were on a block schedule) if I shud arrange to chill sumwhere over thanksgiving break w/ her or give her my number?

Nothing happened after skool.

Plans for tom.
Im gnna try to keep to my goal of meeting 1 new person a day.
Im gnna open a random set w/2-3 girls with my friend Bravo.
I might follow up on girls that I opened last week.
There are no significant chiks in my classes tom. so I think i shud work on talkin to some in my classes to open up my options.
Other than that im just gnna let the day roll.

I would appreciate helpful feedback and critisism as i want to get a gf by the end of the yr nd hve many good friends, male or female.

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[Cockynfunny]

Hmmmmm, errrrrrm.......

Good luck man, I'll be reading your field reports and I will help if I can.

 

[YogurtSlinger]

Good luck is right, ****yandnotfunny. How did it go with your buddy?

1. I thought you were gonna keep it short?
2. You're 16 and have been spitting game for a year and haven't kissed a girl? Damn.
3. Two words: Spell check.
4. Quit trying to meet 700 different girls. You haven't even had one:crackup: girlfriend and you think that you should be talking to a bunch of girls? Focus on one, maybe that hb5.2 gina. Yeah, I know you said 8.5, but this is the internet and nobody tells the truth. Especially some hormonal 16 yo that hasn't done anything but practice making out with his hand (hopefully before playing with yourself rather than after).

 

[Bonafide]

^lol @ this guy...sincere LOL though not just typing LOL...i mean like sincerely dearly LOL

but then I just shake my head

 

[Thrill]

Field Report 11/24/2009 Tuesday

Noting of importance

11/25/2009 Wednesday

Skip to 4th hour

Teacher was chill since it was the day before Thanksgiving. So I chatted up Gina. Talked bout her trip and w.e. I dipped then came back to class after a while and when she came to open the door I said something like, "you better open the door for me." She smiled w.e. and later on she left and came to the door and when I opened it she said the same thing and smiled. Okay fast forward we were conversating and Nico jumped in. He was kinda annoying but whenever the convo waned I would use him as a safety net. So I was busting her on being a predictable girl (shopping at Hollister etc.) and this girl Alexis (moved behind me that day) jumped in by calling me an a**hole. I turned my head to her and said, "What a rude way to interrupt a conversation and you think I'm the a**hole?" She stressed why she thought I'm an a** and I turned it around to make it seem that she was the bad guy for breaking up people talking. I busted her for being nosy then I continued talking with Gina and Nico. Later I opened up and let her join in. So towards the end of class Gina called me mean(whats up with this nonsense I don't normally get called stuff like this?) after I negged her a bit and I brushed it off and she said she was sorry. End of day we went are separate ways and felt pretty good as I was able to hold an hour long convo with someone thats not a close friend.

Nothing happened over the break

12/1/2009

I realized that I don't really like Gina's personality(she doesn't fit the looks, interest, personality score) so I'm just going to talk to her for practice and maybe to talk with her HB9 looking friend.

1st hour
Nothing
2nd hour
Nothing
Lunch
Nothing
3rd hour
Nothing

4th hour
Nothing really happened between me and Gina. We had to do calculator work and Alexis went and got herself and Gina a calculator(they're not friends from what I can tell) so maybe this was an attempt to alienate me or to make me jealous?? Not much happened after that and school ended. I'm keeping my options open but focusing on school.

Thanks for the feedback

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[Thrill]

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[Thrill]

4. Quit trying to meet 700 different girls. You haven't even had one girlfriend and you think that you should be talking to a bunch of girls? Focus on one, maybe that hb5.2 gina. Yeah, I know you said 8.5, but this is the internet and nobody tells the truth.

Lol at your post but dude from what I heard the goal is to keep your options open so that if I focus on one girl and screw up then I can jump to the next. When giving out info on this website you have to put the truth for your own sake. What would be the point in me calling a hb5 an 8? I have nothing to prove to anyone especially people online. Yeah its true I hvnt had a gf but it was bcaz of screw ups on my behalf. Ive had the chance and I still have the chance now but I can do better than that and Im not going to settle for some substandard girl just so I can walk around and say I've had a gf. Until I find a legit girl then I'm staying single.

 

[YogurtSlinger]

You'll find way more satisfaction if you quit trying to run game and focus on being a gentleman and getting to know one or two girls genuinely.

What's the point of getting to know a girl if all you do is what people on here and some queer looking dude with black nails and a fuzzy hat tell you to do? Don't you think that in the long run, you will find more success by trying to be yourself rather than trying to fit in a category that someone else defined? I guess it's possible that you are just so boring that no girl would even want to talk to you unless you were playing this pretend crap. You know, on second thought, that's probably it. Why would you call yourself thrill if you are that boring?

BTW, thanks for spelling stuff right this time. It was much easier to read. Still painful to listen to that pathetic crap, but easier at least...

 

[College.Junior]

Hey dude no offense but it feels like you're coming across as a ****. Like making fun of people is fine and dandy (especially when you're close friends), but the level, and frequency you're doing it at coupled with lack of consideration of the fact you don't really know these people makes you come across as a Jerk.

Also did you seriously use push and pull on your best friend? Like come on man, this is a prime example of taking this pua stuff goes over the top. You don't know why you he was distant and yet you just shut him down. This coupled with your latest paragraph leads me to believe you really don't consider other peoples feelings. It's nice to be a man and everything, but don't be a tool about it.

My advice is for you to try and ease off the 'busting' and finding other ways to hold a conversation, I mean it feels like 80% of your 'conversations' are just you ragging on people. And trust me that is no help at making friends, especially when people don't know you like that.

 

[YogurtSlinger]

Also did you seriously use push and pull on your best friend?

Huh?

 

[Big Poppa]

Wow, YogurtSlinger, must you be such a buzz kill? Give him a break, geez.

But the readers are right Thrill, there's a blurred line between being Alpha and being a complete ****. You're beginning to cross it.

Relax it, don't be your version of C and F all the time, allow genuine compliments and chill the negging.

 

[eaglez1177]

Lol at your post but dude from what I heard the goal is to keep your options open so that if I focus on one girl and screw up then I can jump to the next. When giving out info on this website you have to put the truth for your own sake. What would be the point in me calling a hb5 an 8? I have nothing to prove to anyone especially people online. Yeah its true I hvnt had a gf but it was bcaz of screw ups on my behalf. Ive had the chance and I still have the chance now but I can do better than that and Im not going to settle for some substandard girl just so I can walk around and say I've had a gf. Until I find a legit girl then I'm staying single.

I totally agree.

@ YogurtSlinger: Look man, I know you're new here, and I know you wanna help, but I would really advise you to at least read the Bible first and try to get some more experience with all this stuff (in the field and not in the field) before you start givin certain advice. (see below)

I mean its really, really basic knowledge that you should never focus on one or two girls in particular. That just increases the chance of developing a one-itis, and doesnt let you "expand" your game. You have to practice the stuff you learn on here on as many girls as possible, and as much as possible, if you truly want to see a good improvement. Thrill hit the nail right on the head, and I bolded the important stuff.

 

[YogurtSlinger]

I totally agree.

@ YogurtSlinger: Look man, I know you're new here, and I know you wanna help, but I would really advise you to at least read the Bible first and try to get some more experience with all this stuff (in the field and not in the field) before you start givin certain advice. (see below)

I mean its really, really basic knowledge that you should never focus on one or two girls in particular. That just increases the chance of developing a one-itis, and doesnt let you "expand" your game. You have to practice the stuff you learn on here on as many girls as possible, and as much as possible, if you truly want to see a good improvement. Thrill hit the nail right on the head, and I bolded the important stuff.

*snore*

I don't need to read your little book to know anything about getting laid. I have had sex more in one week than you in your entire life. That would be 16 times, followed closely by two weeks that were somewhere around 10 each. I am dead serious about that. There is ZERO exageration in that statement. I don't believe I need to get any more experience like you suggest. So please, don't suggest that I am some idiot that has no idea what I am doing just because I don't fit into this little cookie cutter book that all you 'guys' have to read to be successful. There's more ways to get things done than what your 'bible' says.

So the rest of you can keep spanking your monkeys because you want to follow this book that some sweet meat wrote about getting chicks. I'll do it my way, if you don't want to listen, I would suggest you go buy more lotion.

 

[Big Poppa]

That was classic YogurtSlinger, totally original.

 

[sageproduct]

*snore*

I don't need to read your little book to know anything about getting laid. I have had sex more in one week than you in your entire life. That would be 16 times, followed closely by two weeks that were somewhere around 10 each. I am dead serious about that. There is ZERO exageration in that statement. I don't believe I need to get any more experience like you suggest. So please, don't suggest that I am some idiot that has no idea what I am doing just because I don't fit into this little cookie cutter book that all you 'guys' have to read to be successful. There's more ways to get things done than what your 'bible' says.

So the rest of you can keep spanking your monkeys because you want to follow this book that some sweet meat wrote about getting chicks. I'll do it my way, if you don't want to listen, I would suggest you go buy more lotion.

Wow.

 

[eaglez1177]

*snore*

I don't need to read your little book to know anything about getting laid. I have had sex more in one week than you in your entire life. That would be 16 times, followed closely by two weeks that were somewhere around 10 each. I am dead serious about that. There is ZERO exageration in that statement. I don't believe I need to get any more experience like you suggest. So please, don't suggest that I am some idiot that has no idea what I am doing just because I don't fit into this little cookie cutter book that all you 'guys' have to read to be successful. There's more ways to get things done than what your 'bible' says.

So the rest of you can keep spanking your monkeys because you want to follow this book that some sweet meat wrote about getting chicks. I'll do it my way, if you don't want to listen, I would suggest you go buy more lotion.

Hahaha, thats pretty sad of you to resort to bragging about how many times you've had sex to people on an internet forum just to justify your "experience" with girls. It shows that you're immature and cant take advice, advice that had absolutely no implication or suggestion of you being an idiot, but rather advice that pointed out a VERY obvious error, obvious enough that Thrill picked it up as well.

And just for the record, the number of times you've had sex does not matter at all (lol come on man grow up, its like bragging about how many times you've hugged a girl), and neither does the fact that you're not a virgin. Theres still so, SO many guys out that that aren't virgins, have sex all the time, and are still completely inexperienced when it comes to girls (dont even bother trying to argue this cuz you know its true).

If your gonna give advice/criticism on this forum, then you have to be willing to accept advice/criticism on this forum, rather than take it as a personal insult and snap back like a little child. Just because I have called out a few of the things you've said on this forum, and have tried to help and advise you, doesnt mean you need to be stubborn and attack the things I say (and you have attacked first every time). Oh, and if I remember correctly, I think you still need to come up with another clever response to this one: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showpost.php?p=1639583&postcount=6

Nothing? Didnt think so. Don't get all mad just because you know I'm right on some things.

And just for the record, the reason why I recommend reading the Bible is because its a good starting point and helps build a good foundation for DJ's. But, like any other thing on this entire forum, you only get as much out of it as you put into it. Simply reading the DJ Bible will not automatically help you get chicks or help you get laid, as you have implied, but rather, It's how you take that valuable information and put it to use in real life, aka, the field (which for some reason you always think that people on here and myself just follow the Bible strictly like little nerds and dont do anything in the field).

 

[YogurtSlinger]

Hahaha, thats pretty sad of you to resort to bragging about how many times you've had sex to people on an internet forum just to justify your "experience" with girls. It shows that you're immature and cant take advice, advice that had absolutely no implication or suggestion of you being an idiot, but rather advice that pointed out a VERY obvious error, obvious enough that Thrill picked it up as well.
1. People on here brag about having sex all the time. That's the purpose of this forum right? All I see that it did is add credibility. You say that my way doesn't work (Nice guys finish last, remember?) and I prove you wrong. My way does work.
2. It's not that I can't take advice, it's just that I don't need it. If I needed it, I would have no problem taking it all day.

And just for the record, the number of times you've had sex does not matter at all (lol come on man grow up, its like bragging about how many times you've hugged a girl), and neither does the fact that you're not a virgin. Theres still so, SO many guys out that that aren't virgins, have sex all the time, and are still completely inexperienced when it comes to girls (dont even bother trying to argue this cuz you know its true).
Your point is? If you are implying that I may be inexperienced, then think again. I just approach things from a different way than you guys. It works, but because it's not in your 'bible' you doubt it's efficacy.

If your gonna give advice/criticism on this forum, then you have to be willing to accept advice/criticism on this forum, rather than take it as a personal insult and snap back like a little child. There is a difference between snapping back and being honest. I have done nothing but be honest anywhere on this forum. Just because I have called out a few of the things you've said on this forum, and have tried to help and advise you, doesnt mean you need to be stubborn and attack the things I say (and you have attacked first every time). Oh, and if I remember correctly, I think you still need to come up with another clever response to this one: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showpost.php?p=1639583&postcount=6

Nothing? Didnt think so. Don't get all mad just because you know I'm right on some things. Who's mad? Sometimes people just aren't worth arguing with when I have to repeat the same thing multiple times so there may be some chance their feeble mind will understand what I am getting at.
And just for the record, the reason why I recommend reading the Bible is because its a good starting point and helps build a good foundation for DJ's. But, like any other thing on this entire forum, you only get as much out of it as you put into it. Simply reading the DJ Bible will not automatically help you get chicks or help you get laid, as you have implied, but rather, It's how you take that valuable information and put it to use in real life, aka, the field (which for some reason you always think that people on here and myself just follow the Bible strictly like little nerds (because that's all you talk about) and dont do anything in the field).

And your book is not the only way to accomplish your goals. All you guys want to be little cookie cutters and won't look at things from another angle. And you sure as hell don't have much of a sense of humor. That's not going to help at all.

This is like conversing with a brick wall.

 

[eaglez1177]

Hahaha, thats pretty sad of you to resort to bragging about how many times you've had sex to people on an internet forum just to justify your "experience" with girls. It shows that you're immature and cant take advice, advice that had absolutely no implication or suggestion of you being an idiot, but rather advice that pointed out a VERY obvious error, obvious enough that Thrill picked it up as well.
1. People on here brag about having sex all the time. That's the purpose of this forum right? Lol actually, your completely wrong once again. People do not brag on here all the time about having sex, simply because nobody gives a sh*t, and its just pathetic to brag about anything to people in front of a fvcking computer screen.All I see that it did is add credibility.Add credibility? Lol I already proved you wrong on that one below ("and just for the record...") You say that my way doesn't work (Nice guys finish last, remember?) and I prove you wrong. My way does work.Ask anyone else on here if nice guys finish last, and if they know anything about this entire game concept, they will agree. Maybe being a nice guy has worked for you a little bit, but if you ever spent the time to read the other threads on here, you'll realize that VERY rarely does being a nice guy work out in the long run.
2. It's not that I can't take advice, it's just that I don't need it. Lol okay. Im not saying you HAVE to take my advice. I've just noticed some obvious mistakes that you have made, and when I tried helping you and correcting you, you spat right back in my face. So face it, you cant take advice. Your too stuck up in your own ego that you think everything you say is the complete truth and will truly work for everyone.If I needed it, I would have no problem taking it all day.

And just for the record, the number of times you've had sex does not matter at all (lol come on man grow up, its like bragging about how many times you've hugged a girl), and neither does the fact that you're not a virgin. Theres still so, SO many guys out that that aren't virgins, have sex all the time, and are still completely inexperienced when it comes to girls (dont even bother trying to argue this cuz you know its true).
Your point is? If you are implying that I may be inexperienced, then think again. I just approach things from a different way than you guys. It works, but because it's not in your 'bible' you doubt it's efficacy.Wow. Can you really not understand my point? My point is that not being a virgin and having sex all the time does not make you have a ton of experience. Maybe experience in bed, but experience in the game as a whole? Definitely not.

If your gonna give advice/criticism on this forum, then you have to be willing to accept advice/criticism on this forum, rather than take it as a personal insult and snap back like a little child. There is a difference between snapping back and being honest. I have done nothing but be honest anywhere on this forum.Lol you have snapped back. Just admit it. Do you honestly want me to spend more time bringing up the various quotes just to show you snapping back? Just because I have called out a few of the things you've said on this forum, and have tried to help and advise you, doesnt mean you need to be stubborn and attack the things I say (and you have attacked first every time). Oh, and if I remember correctly, I think you still need to come up with another clever response to this one: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showpos...83&postcount=6

Nothing? Didnt think so. Don't get all mad just because you know I'm right on some things. Who's mad? Sometimes people just aren't worth arguing with when I have to repeat the same thing multiple times so there may be some chance their feeble mind will understand what I am getting at.I do understand what your getting at. Your just annoyed because i've been proving wrong "what your getting at" every single time.
And just for the record, the reason why I recommend reading the Bible is because its a good starting point and helps build a good foundation for DJ's. But, like any other thing on this entire forum, you only get as much out of it as you put into it. Simply reading the DJ Bible will not automatically help you get chicks or help you get laid, as you have implied, but rather, It's how you take that valuable information and put it to use in real life, aka, the field (which for some reason you always think that people on here and myself just follow the Bible strictly like little nerds (because that's all you talk about) and dont do anything in the field)Thats all i talk about? Id like you to find one, ONE quote anywhere on here that supports that, other than just recommending for some people to read the bible. NEVER has anyone ever said something like "ohh well thats not in the bible!" or "ohh well the bible says you should do this!" We never talk about the bible other than just recommend for others to read it..

And your book is not the only way to accomplish your goals.Uhh yea, no sh*t. I just explained that above. ("Simply reading the DJ bible...") All you guys want to be little cookie cutters and won't look at things from another angle. And you sure as hell don't have much of a sense of humor. That's not going to help at all..

Im tired of arguing with you. Ive got much better things to do than argue with someone on an internet dating forum, someone who is so narrow minded that they barely comprehend and understand others' advice and criticism. Ive explained myself and corrected you over and over, yet you still dont seem to understand what im saying.

 

[jnice48146]

Man I did pretty well in high school just on looks and popularity. I can't imagine what it would have been like if I held the knowledge learned in this forum, and put together by some of the gurus!

 

[YogurtSlinger]

1. People on here brag about having sex all the time. That's the purpose of this forum right? Lol actually, your completely wrong once again. People do not brag on here all the time about having sex, simply because nobody gives a sh*t, and its just pathetic to brag about anything to people in front of a fvcking computer screen.Would you like for me to cite examples? I can find numerous posts where the OP was simply bragging about having sex. All I see that it did is add credibility.Add credibility? Lol I already proved you wrong on that one below ("and just for the record...") How did you prove me wrong? By disagreeing? Last time I checked, disagreeing does not equal proof. We simply have two different views. You say that my way doesn't work (Nice guys finish last, remember?) and I prove you wrong. My way does work.Ask anyone else on here if nice guys finish last, and if they know anything about this entire game concept, they will agree. Then we will have to agree to disagree. Maybe being a nice guy has worked for you a little bit, but if you ever spent the time to read the other threads on here, you'll realize that VERY rarely does being a nice guy work out in the long run. Actually, the 'long run' would be marriage and to have a successful marriage, you are probably going to have to be a nice guy. Maybe all this game works for hookups and one night stands, but that's not the way to find a wife.
2. It's not that I can't take advice, it's just that I don't need it. Lol okay. Im not saying you HAVE to take my advice. I've just noticed some obvious mistakes that you have made, and when I tried helping you and correcting you, you spat right back in my face. So face it, you cant take advice. Thank you for your efforts. I can take advice, if I need it. What part of that do you not understand? I don't want advice on how to apply the rules that you guys use to get girls. I approach things from a different direction. We will not agree on that, but why can't you see that I am not interested in doing things the same way as the majority of people on here? Your too stuck up in your own ego that you think everything you say is the complete truth and will truly work for everyone.If I needed it, I would have no problem taking it all day.

And just for the record, the number of times you've had sex does not matter at all (lol come on man grow up, its like bragging about how many times you've hugged a girl), and neither does the fact that you're not a virgin. Theres still so, SO many guys out that that aren't virgins, have sex all the time, and are still completely inexperienced when it comes to girls (dont even bother trying to argue this cuz you know its true).
Your point is? If you are implying that I may be inexperienced, then think again. I just approach things from a different way than you guys. It works, but because it's not in your 'bible' you doubt it's efficacy.Wow. Can you really not understand my point? My point is that not being a virgin and having sex all the time does not make you have a ton of experience. Maybe experience in bed, but experience in the game as a whole? Definitely not. And what evidence have I given you that I am inexperienced outside of the bedroom? Because I don't subscribe to your method of talking to girls? That is not inexperienced, I just use a different method.

If your gonna give advice/criticism on this forum, then you have to be willing to accept advice/criticism on this forum, rather than take it as a personal insult and snap back like a little child. There is a difference between snapping back and being honest. I have done nothing but be honest anywhere on this forum.Lol you have snapped back. Just admit it. Do you honestly want me to spend more time bringing up the various quotes just to show you snapping back? Just because I have called out a few of the things you've said on this forum, and have tried to help and advise you, doesnt mean you need to be stubborn and attack the things I say (and you have attacked first every time). Oh, and if I remember correctly, I think you still need to come up with another clever response to this one: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showpos...83&postcount=6

Nothing? Didnt think so. Don't get all mad just because you know I'm right on some things. Who's mad? Sometimes people just aren't worth arguing with when I have to repeat the same thing multiple times so there may be some chance their feeble mind will understand what I am getting at.I do understand what your getting at. Your just annoyed because i've been proving wrong "what your getting at" every single time. Again, how have you proved me wrong? You have only disagreed. That does not mean you have proven anything. If I disagree with you, have I 'proved' you wrong? NO.