thrill of the hunt - but then what

[joekerr31]

gents,

do any of you find that the harder the catch the more exciting the hunt BUT after you bag her and bang her you're interest in her suddenly falls dramatically?

i find that with some women PRIOR to banging them i'll be extremely into them and my interest levels are very high.

but then after i bag em and tag em, suddenly my interest levels crash.

what's your opinion on why this happens?

 

[Metro3pilot]

For me Joekerr ....

I guess I kind of get pissed they made me jump thru hoops, and when you have the time to learn about how they are as people without being blinded by the poonanny, it's easier to see things you don't like in them ....it's all about the challenge ...

peace out :rockon:

 

[Vulpine]

but then after i bag em and tag em, suddenly my interest levels crash.

what's your opinion on why this happens?

You're a man. It's just the hunter mentality we have.

Like when you're standing over your kill, the rush wears off, and you feel that little bit of remorse that it's over, you took it's life, and now you've got to clean it and cook it and eat it. It's that shifting gears, that transition from "sport" to "chore". After you give chase and finally conquer, the only thing left is, well, the thrill of chasing and conquering again.

 

[joekerr31]

from sport to chore, i like that. I'm going to use it on the next chic i bang 10 times. after the 11th time when im just not vibing her that much and she says 'whats wrong joekerr?" i'll say "you know, i think its just that we've transition from sport to chore. don't you?"

 

[Heretolearn]

May I suggest that you are perhaps chasing the wrong goal in this instance.

I understand completely the phenomenon you describe but have personally found it meant I had something unfulfilled or an unnoticed desire or a subconcious awareness that I was not living the way I truly wanted to at the time and was merely distracting myself from this greater confusion or frustration of either not being able to scratch the itch or worse still, feeling funny and itchy but not knowing why.

It can also be a way of ticking the boxes so to speak on being with different girls/experiences. You never seriously want to have anything past just a taste.

I know you are obviously very accomplished in many realms so can truly review yourself and your path. Perhaps you chase girls that you do not competely respect or look up to, just to conquer and build yourself up to the time when you can finally seek or receive the woman or thing in your life that would keep you interested.

I find interest is generated by the following things: *not an exclusive list, a lot more categories I am sure.

curiosity/mystery. Thus shortlived when you discover/unravel the woman (get her)

Conquest/ego. The hunt. Prove something, perhaps to yourself or to others. Shortlived.

Boredom/distraction/loneliness: Allows you to fill in time in this life so you feel like you are accomplishing/doing something

Genuine respect/passion/love/common values and goals: When you are both on the same team trying to accomplish the same journey and having a lot of fun on the way

etc.