"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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threw my vday away

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Not really sure whether to feel down on myself or thankful that I don't have to unload $$ on this stupid holiday.

Was seeing some chick, banging on the regular. Meanwhile she was seeing some other dude, using him for emotional support (he's a chump.. texts her all the time omg baby i love you, etc).

Anyways she finds out I was banging some other girl behind her back.

Now she canceled our vday plans and she's taking this guy out (he's paying for some extravagant dinner).

In one way I'm thankful I don't have to pay (nor would I in the first place), but now I'm alone with no sex!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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slaog said:
Whats her problem? Shes seeing more then 1 man so she can't complain. Also if you are desperate for sex she'll recognise that and use that against you. Don't give her that power.
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Yeah, well the other dude is a chump. She was seeing him for awhile and she was banging me. I saw texts from him like "why don't we have sex anymore?" and "I miss you." Etc.

Whenever he would call, she'd always tell me he was all up in her sh!t and she wanted to see me instead.

So yeah, I don't know what her problem is. She even told her friend that she was not looking forward to vday with this dude AT ALL. Like her pvssy shrivels up when she's with him.

I mean how can I not be desperate for sex? When she wants to have sex I just turn her down? Then what.. we sit around and watch movies? No, that's what she does with this chump.

I guess she uses me for sex, so I can't complain.
 
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blackhatter said:
I mean how can I not be desperate for sex? When she wants to have sex I just turn her down? Then what.. we sit around and watch movies? No, that's what she does with this chump.

I guess she uses me for sex, so I can't complain.
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Theres no problem wanting sex. You just need to want it less then the woman or at least give her that impression.


The other guy might be a chump and getting used but guess what, so are you! She's using the 2 of you.


She's now punishing you for having sex with another woman. You're her plate and she still expects you to be loyal while she plays around. It's time for you to show this little girl who the man is.
 
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