Threesomes

[crossfitter]

Never had a threesome but had what I know were some opportunities. A few months back I was working the bar at our annual Fire Department fundraiser. It's a new part time place and was my first time working and was told stories of fun times from the past. 4 day event and hooked up with a girl HB7 on Friday. Next night same girl comes up, interested again, and her friend HB8 is with her this time. We do some shots and she says to me, "my friend wants to f you." Straight up, no interpretation needed. I tell em both to come with me down to the beach (where I f-ed initial HB7 night before). We were walking down chatting and when we got there HB7 was a few feet away and I turned to HB8 and started making out with her. HB7 got pissed off and was saying something when I see HB8 laying down on the beach hiking her skirt up staring at me. Not gonna cry over spoiled milk so I hooked up with HB8. Almost identical situation occurred last night with a girl I dated in high school and her friend. Wasn't as aggressive as saying her friend wants to f me, but kept saying my friend thinks you're hot. Got back to friends place and start making out. HS chica starts getting pissed and other girl starts taking her clothes off, walking to her bedroom. I follow and have fun. Threesome sounds fun and would like input on how to close this deal.

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

Cardinal rule of threesomes: No matter what your girl says, in the end, it needs to be about her. If she's cool with you banging another chick with her, that doesn't mean she's going to sit in the corner and watch while you have the time of your life with her friend.

This is a chick we're talking about. They say one thing then mean another. Even if she does give you the green light for the time being, it doesn't mean that light won't turn to yellow and then red. She may be all cool with it at the moment, after she had a few drinks in her, but it's still going to take some maneuvering on your part. As long as you make it about her, your attention and your focus (acting comes in handy here), she's a lot more apt to go through with it.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Yes, I agree. Female jealousy is the tightrope you have to walk. It's easiest if you can get the two of them making out, then just start feeling up both of them and go from there. You don't ever want your girl to have to watch you making out with her friend in the threesome context. I made that mistake once a long time ago. It's not that you can't make out with both girls; it's just that everybody should be busy doing something when it happens.

 

[Ballie57]

I Never have had the privilege of being part of a threesome. My best bud and I shared girlfriends when we were in our twenties. Not porn style dual bangs - but it was very cool sharing the same chick(s) with your best mate

 

[SecondHalf]

Avoid it with your girlfriend (if you value her) at all costs.
Pay for it, have a FB or plate set it up.

Your GF can call that one in at anytime.
She has the power to remind you of it forever (you've lost control).
She can say "my turn" someday when you might not be so enthused (like if she develops a large crush on a friend of co-worker of yours).
It could be the first step to a more "open" relationship.

Maybe any of these scenarios are OK with you because it's kind of a causal relationship anyway, but ... if you are hooked on this girl, you will likely regret it someday.

Pay a couple hundred for a couple 18 year old Asian sisters, done!

SH

 

[crossfitter]

So it's about the initial gal that I slept with and make it about her, make her feel all special and it's an experience that we can both enjoy (+1).

 

[Ballie57]

Pay a couple hundred for a couple 18 year old Asian sisters, done!

This is the best advice I have heard on this topic. You don't sh!t on your own door step. you have spent both financial and emotional money on your girlfriend. It is an investment on your time (which is money) - when I heard what a slvt my fiance was, I got rid of her - but that didn't stop some Boer from cutting me with his Gerber blade because he was jealous of what I had. Believe me, women are more viscious - do you want to be "bobbet" for fvck sake.

 

[Boilermaker]

Why are threesomes so important?

I'd find three different chicks in a row way more satisfying than a threesome.

 

[Alvafe]

Why are threesomes so important?

I'd find three different chicks in a row way more satisfying than a threesome.

its not like important, its like that thing you having a harem of woman fighting over you and some know they can't have you but is willing to share, plus its kinda hot you join 2 girls making out

I remember that time I pulled that off course we wasdrinking both girls really or wanted to experiment it or was doing it for fun and me for some reason clicked with both at the same time without problem and next I see it we 3 was naked and when I was eating one the other was blowing me, too bad I never could repeat that... lucky night I guess

but I agree with secondhalf if you do it do it with a girl you don't care at all and won't develop on a LTR