"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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slow clap...

Everyone I know who has managed to get two girls says that it revolves around one of them knowing another girl who is into it. It sounds like that level of trust ( albiet very little) is needed to do it. Glad you shared the experiences as it is something I want to do someday but have never gotten.

Well done! you have my respect! /salute/
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Lexington said:
So we did the deed over the weekend. A few days before we got down to business, we all met up and went out for a night on the town. Basically we went bar hopping and ended up at a club by the end of the night. It was a good opportunity to get to know this new girl and we could all get comfortable in each others' company.

It was fun and it was definitely an interesting experience but it certainly wasn't what it's hyped up to be (I guess it's impossible to live up to the hype). We all did pretty much what we felt like because we all agreed that we just wanted to have fun. The other girl seemed to be a little more on the lesbo side so she was more interested in the girl I'm dating, while my girl seems to be more into c0ck. I didn't have to worry about offending her.

We went 3 rounds and then ended up in the hot tub. All in all, it was a pretty cool experience and it's another thing I can cross off the bucket list. Next up, I want to do a Lebanese chick and a really tall girl.
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Did you at least get some penetration on the other chick, or was it all finger banging and oral, in other words you and your gf entertaining the 3rd girl more than yourselves?
 
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And Nutz, what I say about that suit that hasn't been already been said about Afghanistan. It looks bombed out, and depleted.

Now if you'll excuse me, I'm gonna go home, and put some water in Buck Nasty momma's dish
 
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wait_out said:
And Nutz, what I say about that suit that hasn't been already been said about Afghanistan. It looks bombed out, and depleted.

Now if you'll excuse me, I'm gonna go home, and put some water in Buck Nasty momma's dish
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??? I have no idea what you're talking about.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Nutz said:
Did you at least get some penetration on the other chick, or was it all finger banging and oral, in other words you and your gf entertaining the 3rd girl more than yourselves?
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Oh yeah, I stuck it to both of them. I think most bi chicks tend to lean more one way than the other. My girl seems to be more into guys and likes to occasionally mess with girls while it's the opposite for the other girl.
 
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Yeah,

When I was younger and hotter I did that stuff all the time, I even did a 4some (where you switch girls with another guy) and came to the realization that I don't really like it that much. Its just another one of those fantasies that guys who have never done it think about all the time. My current GF wanted to do it with a few of her friends and I was more than happy to oblige, considering they were hot, but other than that, I'm not really into it.

The good thing is, if you have done it before, you have some experience and should know what to do without getting nervous if you are in that position again.
 
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