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I was wondering? Have any of you guys had a 3some. I never have but, I kind of want one. However I don't want to plan it out. Most guys I know that have had 3 somes got them through hookers, or they had a girlfriend and she brought one her friends in the mix after he brought it up to her.

I want a 3some where I am friends with a couple of chicks and they both want to have sex with me. I want it to be spontaneous.

Have any of you guys had a 3some. How did you organize it, was it spontanous?
 

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lookyoung said:
I was wondering? Have any of you guys had a 3some. I never have but, I kind of want one. However I don't want to plan it out. Most guys I know that have had 3 somes got them through hookers, or they had a girlfriend and she brought one her friends in the mix after he brought it up to her.

I want a 3some where I am friends with a couple of chicks and they both want to have sex with me. I want it to be spontaneous.

Have any of you guys had a 3some. How did you organize it, was it spontanous?

bro i was so close!!! My girlfriend has a friend who is MARRIED but she kept telling me how she likes to cheat on her husband. So one day I was all drunk and asked her to bring her friend over for a threesome and she said OK!!!

She brought her friend over and we were chilling. So I tried to make my move.

I put one hand on my girlfriend, then I leaned to kiss the married chic and during the kiss she flaked!!

It went downhill from there.

At least I tried!!!!
 

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Damn thugo that was close. I have been in a situation 2 times where my friend and me were messing with girls in same room. However It was 2 on 2 and we never even though about switching offf. I don't know why??????? I guess we were just happy to be getting it.



Yeah I am talking about spontaneous threesome.
 

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You want to discuss how to bring about a spontaneous threesome?
Yes I am sure it has been done but you probably have to be very lucky to pull it off.
 

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lookyoung said:
Damn thugo that was close. I have been in a situation 2 times where my friend and me were messing with girls in same room. However It was 2 on 2 and we never even though about switching offf. I don't know why??????? I guess we were just happy to be getting it.



Yeah I am talking about spontaneous threesome.
I dont know what happened.. but to tell you the truth who knows what would have happened if the threesome went through that night...

first of all I GUARANTEE you my girlfriend would have been pissed the next day even though she agreed to it ! women :rolleyes:

2nd of all the other girl was MARRIED... and I was drunk.. but still... angry hubby could have shot me.
 

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Thugo said:
I dont know what happened.. but to tell you the truth who knows what would have happened if the threesome went through that night...

first of all I GUARANTEE you my girlfriend would have been pissed the next day even though she agreed to it ! women :rolleyes:

2nd of all the other girl was MARRIED... and I was drunk.. but still... angry hubby could have shot me.

It might have been worth it though. Come on a threesome. LOL LOL LOL LOL
 

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It might have been worth it though. Come on a threesome. LOL LOL LOL LOL

yeah... it was crazy times... ever since that night they had a fight and they aren't friend anymore lol...
 

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Very tired...ok

My friend met chick in club, gets #

Calls girl, tells her to get friend for me so we can kick (he didn't have car)

Bowling for a couple hours--both girls start liking me (my friend likes girl too much and starts acting AFC)

Sex in the backseat with 'my' girl

Other girl comes to 'see what we're doing'.

Good times.

Well, maybe not so good for my friend.

They were clearly sluts.
 

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Has any one had a threesome on sosuave? Tell me your experience
 

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Ive had one threesome. I knew this woman. She is 26. She IMs me on yahoo telling me that she thought about calling me today, she was nearby. Anyway, we get to talking and she tells me that her best friend Beth is there. Any, eventually she tells me she is her bed buddy tonight, and tells me to come over to "tear them up." Her words..lol. So, that's pretty much how it happened..lol.
 

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Oh, btw, both of those women in my 3some were married. Hubby was away for the night in another town. I seriously don't trust married women. It makes me think twice about ever getting married. I don't wanna be that guy that has a wife do this **** that women do when their hubby is "away." Oh, after it was over and we fvcked, the chick says to me, "this tonight, it just...."happened." What an excuse. Chick logic.
 

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Yep, and ended up living with them although once we moved in togeather it stopped because they didn't want me being a "part" of their relationship. It's not all it's cracked up to be, well it wasn't for me because I liked one more than the other and in the end it all went VERY badly. Funny thing was I was also dating this other bisexual girl who wanted to join in but I didn't want that as I was "in love" with the one of the girls and didn't want to introduce another girl. It was all very ****ed up and I wouldn't recommend it.

As for getting it, I don't know but before and since I have rejected it with other girls. Hanging out with party girls and being non-sleazy/sweet generally helps because in a threesome the girls take control and they almost get off just showing the guy a good time. It's not something you can create because they like the fact they have the power. I've also talked to friends of mine who have done it and they have said the same, the girls are using you and although that sounds great it's not in reality. **** even the girls I lived with said the same thing, they **** them and the **** them out.
 

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ryannath - I totally agree about married women or any women in a so called relationship. I used to be nice and naieve where I thought most people where faithful however I've come to realise that most people (men or women) aren't and I can't allow someone to get close because of that.
 

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d9930380, I agree. The thing is after I did them, I felt sorry for their husband's because they have such slut wives. Both of the women even has 2 kids with their hubby's and they think their wives are so innocent and would never do anything wrong. And, I agree both men and women cheat, but seriously, I think women cheat more. They are sneakier and that **** never gets out unless the guy blurts it out to someone.
 

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ryannath said:
d9930380, I agree. The thing is after I did them, I felt sorry for their husband's because they have such slut wives. Both of the women even has 2 kids with their hubby's and they think their wives are so innocent and would never do anything wrong. And, I agree both men and women cheat, but seriously, I think women cheat more. They are sneakier and that **** never gets out unless the guy blurts it out to someone.

Man that sucks imagine being husbands to one of these girls. HOLY SHVT :cuss: :cuss: :cuss: :cuss: :cuss:
 

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http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=112532&highlight=3soms

And when it happens, if your gf gets up to leave the room briefly, don't be making out with the other chick when she walks back into the room. The 3som is already pushing a fine line with her jealousy tolerance.

Also, I think these things work better if she does not know the other girl very well. Threesomes have a way of ending friendships. Strangers are better. Just send your gf out onto a dance floor to find another girl to make out with, and then bring her back to you. It does not always work, but eventually it will.
 

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lookyoung said:
Yes I am sure it has been done but you probably have to be very lucky to pull it off.
He was probably just commenting on the irony.
 

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