"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Threesome

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Say you ask your wife or GF to have a threesome with her girlfriend and she agrees. You follow through and do it.

About a week later, your wife or GF asks you for a threesome with one of your friends.

Would you? Honest answers only. Note, this is a hypothetical question.
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Nope

Longer answer: I don't share my poon with anyone else except another woman. Why on earth would I want another dude go stuffing his manhood in what is mine? I'd probably kill him right there and then.
 

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First up it would make a huge difference if it's wife or girlfriend. With a girlfriend all I risk losing is her. Mabey toss in some heartache, If I cared about her. But thats it.

With a wife you would be gambling half your assets and lifes work as well!!!!

Same goes for bringing one of your friends into the mix. Just a zillion ways for that to go bad too. Very easy to lose the girl and the friend in one fell swoop.

Last and most important, is how are you going to fell about all this. Sure you're all charged up while your horny. Seems like all kinds of thrills then. Gonna feel that way after you bust a nut???

This is a perfect situation to "man up" in. First is you need to think with the big head, and shut up the little head. If shes a wife think think with the big head AND your wallet.
If you won't be able to deal with seeing some dude have his way, better to say no now, and deal with far less of an issue right now.

All you are asking here is should you trust a woman to have unattached, emotionless sex?

Well? Do you???
 

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Ever see the ending of "Chasing Amy"?

That seems to be the most likely outcome of any situation like that where a serious relationship is involved. Awkward moment and a slap in the face.
 

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Why the hell would you choose to have a threesome with another dude?
It's actually a lot less social pressure to perform, and is pretty funny, because you can crack jokes the entire time.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The obvious point of this is that if she agrees to do it for you, would you agree to do it for her? You know, tit for tat. Just wanted to see what the answers/comments would be.
 

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life's not fair, you know it, she knows it. Just another example of how unfair it is. it's always tit for tit :)

There should only be one man in a woman's life.
 
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