"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Threesome With My Current Plate

sangheilios

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Just a normal night out in a club in my city... she seemed like a sweet sexy girl...


However its amazing how much truth a woman will speak and reveal of herself when she is drunk.
From my observations and experiences, most people that frequent clubs and are all about the nightlife are rarely what I would consider people of a savory nature. Sure, there are exceptions to this, but it just attracts a certain type of person and I'm not really sure what it is specifically that does so, this goes for both men and women.

She's definitely a sexy girl but I wouldn't use the word sweet lol, definitely not that type of woman you bring home to mom.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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So the nude modelling wouldn't bother you? How about the occasional cocaine use?
Nude modelling before me wouldn’t bother me (maybe a little but not enough to DQ). Nude modelling during me would def be a red flag. I use coke every few weeks, it basically just feels like what caffeine felt like before I built a tolerance to it. I never crave it at all, it actually blows my mind that people get addicted to it. Even marijuana feels like a much stronger drug than cocaine. I’d have to define how “occasional” her use is and whether she has an addictive personality.
 

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I originally started this thread just for a little advice.. Hey this is what this forum is for.. to help each other out when us SS brothers need guidance and for development and growth.

However, this thread has got me worried about Spaz.. What is it that has made him such a bitter and hateful individual?

Why does he feel the need to put another man down, over something so trivial.

Maybe it makes him feel better about his own short comings, when he tramples on other folks.

In my experience, the guys who HATE the most on others, are the ones who are not getting anywhere with woman.

The ones who have not been layed in a long time.. Or have only the option of banging fatties.

Why is it he needs to hate on people when all they want is a little advice from fellow brothers.

He suggested that I shouldn't contribute to my own thread lol

What I have found in life is, the puny little weak men, are the most hateful towards the men who are doing well with the ladies.

Little man syndrome comes to mind.
 

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Why tell her she's a fuk buddy, there is no point, nothing to be achieved other than a negative?
 

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Looks like only 1 fella has been initiated into the order of the white knights.

The ladies needs to work extra hard on their skills....
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Looks like only 1 fella has been initiated into the order of the white knights.

The ladies needs to work extra hard on their skills....

Poor guy, keeps harping on about white knights like a broken record.. Didn't even comprehend what the thread was about.

Bitterness and negative energy runs deep in this one.
 

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If you get the sense that she's using the threesome thing as a relationship ploy, then the best thing for the lifespan of keeping her as a plate is to forget about it, and just not bring it up unless she does.

She's probably looking for you to be thirsty for it. Giving her the illusion of a relationship actually ****s the set up for you. Better not to be drawn on it, leading to a relationship talk and everything else.
I've actually stopped caring about my initial issue.. i'm actually more concerned about figuring out why Spaz is so bitter towards his fellow SS brothers and sisters?

What drove him to this state of anger, frustration and bitterness? Lack of puzzy? Tired of banging fatties? Tired of pretending to be some ladies man, pimp player.

I hope we can help him in some way. Maybe he should start hitting the gym, gain some muscle mass, so he can rid of this insecurities that are coming across in the form of anger and Bitterness.
 

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I have no idea why you're waiting. I've never turned down a threesome as long as the chicks are halfway decent looking. WTF.
 

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String her along and get a threesome out of her. Manipulate her to get what you want. You know, the same thing women will do to any guy if they can get away with it.........
 

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String her along and get a threesome out of her. Manipulate her to get what you want. You know, the same thing women will do to any guy if they can get away with it.........
+1 on this. If she's hinting around at it, she's probably one of 3 things:

1. She wants to use this as a carrot to get him into a relationship.
2. She wants to open the door at having other cawks on the side or joining them in the bedroom
3. She's into chicks too

In any of these events, she's probably going to end up doing what she wants anyways. If she's hinting around at it, why not go with it? If she's going to do what she wants in 2 of the 3 situations anyways, why not indulge her? If she wants other cawks, time to send her packing but until she starts trying to or bringing them in, bang her and her friends. Threesomes very rarely work out relationship wise.

There may be some chicks that can handle you railing other chicks but whether it's some fetish for her or she wants other guys to bang her, that type of stuff is going to ruin any potential for a relationship and if she's pushing for it, she likely doesn't value the relationship all that much anyway.

So why not simply use her up for what's she willing to give and then move on when she's done doing that or wants to bring in other guys. And whether women realize it or not, extra guys in the bed and extra girls in the bed is just different, plain and simple. They can justify all they want but there's not justifying that. As the one comedian said, "In my fantasies, my penis is the star of the show"
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Smash for all she is worth and then toss. No explanation needed when you ghost her.
 

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String her along and get a threesome out of her. Manipulate her to get what you want. You know, the same thing women will do to any guy if they can get away with it.........
The feminine imperative will think your mean, manipulative and a user.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I don't think i will lose any sleep over that
Nor should you be. Do you think they lose sleep after the ghost you or flake? Hellllll nah.

Get it in. The more action you line up for yourself. The stronger they all will be chasing and climbing over each other to get to you.
Its true. If you dont have a little @sshole in you, you are not doing things correctly. Not that you have to be mean, you just have to be about YOU first.
 

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So whats your opinion on the RED FLAG??

Its amazing how much a chick will reveal about herself once she has had a few drinks lol.

01.Mentioned self harming herself some years ago.

02.I get the impression recently been Alpha Widowed.

03.Mentions other dudes, male friends pretty often.

04.A male freind is moving in with her soon, but will be sleeping on the sofa.

05.Has done nude modelling and fetish modelling.

06.She had a full on relationship with a WOMAN for two years haha

07.Occasional Cocaine use when she goes out.

08.Has done a Threesome and a Foursome in the past.. Claimed she didn't enjoy it much. Probably two dudes banged her in that foursome.

09.Had sex with me on the first date (not complaining)

10.Has shown interest in having a threesome with me, even if I invite another dude in.

I can't believe she is expecting a relationship with me with all this HUGE flags lol
 

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Your job is to keep banging her. Get the 3 some. Enjoy it.

Her job is to push a relationship later on. Then its your job on how to handle that if she brings it up.

For now it should be hooking up and having fun. Nothing else.
 

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My Spanish plate Maria mentioned today she wants a threesome with me, either with a girl or guy and asked me what I thought. First time this ever happened to me.

I said I’m up for it, but I don’t know any girls who could join. Tbh I wouldn’t even mind another guy banging her, but she’s strictly a sex plate although we have good times together and I enjoy her company.

If she knows some hoe that’s down to get fvcked I’m all for that
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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