Threesome question

[Candyman]

I been going out with my gf for about a year and a half im 22 she is 18. I always used to tell her that my fantasy was to be with 2 girls she will think was disgusting and that she even would let me pay it with some prostitutes if I really want it but that she would never do it. Well im her second bf her first one was a kid so she was very inexperienced when i got here lil by lil i been doing with my gf everything i have dream to do to a woman, i slap her anytime i want to I spit on her, this things turn her on most of the time.

We have sex literally twice a day everyday and we don’t get bored but now in her room they put some cable box and it has porn. Of course her mom doesn’t know that. At the beginning i will put porn only girls she wouldn’t like it. But all started with me telling her look how good those girls please each other and wouldn’t you like to be in a bed with me and another girl licking your ***** while im looking at you stuff like that. Well yesterday she confess to me that she gets turned on with girls doing each other in porn because she wants to feel what those girls are experiencing but at the same time she feels bad she thinks is wrong to think like that. she goes to me I don’t feel any attraction for girls its just the idea of experience that that drives me nuts and she always put me in the picture every time she describes it she tells me what im either doing to her or the chick and it turns me on like crazy. So we want to do it we just need the third person. Will these affect the relationship? any tips on threesome thanks

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Rule number 1 (the most important rule): NEVER involve anyone who either of you have any type of attachment (emotional, working, friend; whatever). You want to avoid any additional emotional attachments at all cost.

 

[Candyman]

yeah we both think the same

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

Rule number 2: A threesome must always seem like it's the girl's idea, never the guy's. All women KNOW this is what a guy wants, but if it's in their interest they'll be more apt to experience it.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Rule number 2: A threesome must always seem like it's the girl's idea, never the guy's. All women KNOW this is what a guy wants, but if it's in their interest they'll be more apt to experience it.

:yes: Very true.

 

[MacAvoy]

Rule #3 If you like a girl, don't do a 3some with her. I've had multiple 3ways / gang bangs, the one thing I've learned is to never do it with someone you love. Be prepared to lose the relationship as a result.

3somes are meant to do with skanks and wh0res. As you get older, you'll learn to separate your adventure fvcking from your relationships.

But your 22 and she's into it so go for it. But I've been in your position a time or two and finding that 3rd partner is very very difficult. If you truly want it to happen, hire a H00ker, tell her to meet you at a bar on such a date & time, then tell your g/f that you want to go to the bar together to try pick up. Its going to cost you a little extra cuz your going to have to pay the wh0re to stay at the bar for the first hour, then your going to have to pay for her to go back to your place but its the most realistic way of achieving your goal.

However your g/f can never know she's a wh0re. Finding a 3rd party is VERY VERY difficult. I've lost the g/f twice before who were curious before we ever found a suitable partner.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Rule #3 If you like a girl, don't do a 3some with her. I've had multiple 3ways / gang bangs, the one thing I've learned is to never do it with someone you love. Be prepared to lose the relationship as a result..

This falls into Rule #1.

 

[MacAvoy]

Sorry missed that LOL. I basically repeated rule #1 in a less eloquant way.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Sorry missed that LOL. I basically repeated rule #1 in a less eloquant way.

You were right none the less. Too many guys get too caught up in the act that they never consider the repercussions. A good ménage takes planning, especially if there's an interest to do it a few times.

 

[mintxx]

' i slap her anytime i want to I spit on her, this things turn her on most of the time.'
It sounds like if you want to have a threesome, this girl is ideal and if you can find another one like her with the same mindset, there should be no problem except perhaps the eventual breakdown of your relationship because of trust and jealousy issues. She could end up even more fvcked up. But I wouldn't know for sure.

 

[Candyman]

OK most of you guys are telling me not do it, but she is also into the idea .Now she also told me that sometimes she think she would regret it in the midle of the act

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

OK most of you guys are telling me not do it, but she is also into the idea .Now she also told me that sometimes she think she would regret it in the midle of the act

Who said don't do it?

 

[mintxx]

'OK most of you guys are telling me not do it,'

Not at all. By interpreting our words in that way you're suggesting that you see this girl as a long term prospect. Not to get all moral on you, but I have to say that if this is how you want to behave with someone you think of as a serious girlfriend, nothing anyone says either way is going to help you. But since most here come from the standpoint that a girl you are fukking at 22 cannot be serious by definition, you should take any advice given with the additional assumption that this relationship will not last and that your girl will devolve into a head-case if you go ahead with this.
But, who cares about her mental health? You certainly don't, whether you believe it or not. Go for it, this is the kind of thing you're supposed to do when you're young. The impact it has on you is your own responsibility.

 

[MacAvoy]

Do it. Don't get me wrong, just know what your getting in to. At 22 you may love her and see a long future with her but in reality, the numbers suggest that she'll be just one of the many women you have a relationship with, so GO for it.

Don't over think it. Just remember its most guys fantasy for a reason, the reason is because its never a reality for most guys. Like I said before, its very hard to find that 3rd party.

 

[KoalaKing]

Rule number 2: A threesome must always seem like it's the girl's idea, never the guy's. All women KNOW this is what a guy wants, but if it's in their interest they'll be more apt to experience it.[/QUOTE

Speak for yourself, the last thing I want is a threesome, one hot babe at a time is enough for me :nono: