Threesome dilemma

[Pilo]

So I've been f-ing this girl for the past six months. Around the third month she told me she wanted to excalate our sex life or sexcalete for short. Anyways she told me she has a crush on this girl who is one of her closest friends. I try to convince her that we should just pick a random girl from a bar and double team her. :rockon: but she says she doesn't wanna **** some skank. So, I tried doing the threesome one day. We all got really wasted and went out dancing. Unfortunately my girl had way to many to drink and I ended up babysitting her for the rest of the night. The worst part was that she told her friend we wanted to have a threesome. She took it lightly and somewhat playfully, which I take as a good sign.
Ok so the first problem is this: They grew up together and have known each other for all their lives. I also went to highschool with this girls and have known them since then. Both of them usually hang out with the same circle of friends. Also all from highschool. I hang out with them from time to time since we were friends in highschool.
So the problem is that after the threesome is over, it might get a little weird between us. I was trying to convince my girl to be a trio with me and the other girl, but she was not into it.
I'm going out with them on thursday again and I'm trying to plan out so everything goes smoothly. I am a little worried about burning some bridges but a threesome is a threesome.
I need some advice from the more experience ones to pull this off. One of my biggest problems is that these are cute girls so guys approach them all the time. They even approach me . Then they try to sweep into my girls. The first time I had dodge them left and right. So if anyone got a good advice I will like to hear. Keep in mind that the other girls is just a friend and that she can and will talk to whoever she wants.
Another problem is that my girl is very shy to make the first move. I don't think is possible for me to do it because the other girl won't let me. Specially if she is standing next to us.
Anyways I'm going salsa dancing which is another issue. It's really hard to dance with two girls at the same time and there are many spanish alphas lurking. Again this girl can dance with whoever she wants.
I wanna know if anybody has some game or scheme to get the girls kissing and turn them on in a low risk kinda way.
Any input is highly appreciated.

 

[Pilo]

come on guys
seriously, no more seniors reading the board anymore?

 

[Alle_Gory]

Of course they are, but this is clearly an attention whoring post.

You don't really have a question. I'm also wondering why you need someone to hold your hand through all this. You've clearly got things going well for you.

 

[Pilo]

Dude I wasn't trying to come off as a ****y ahole trying to show off. Guys in the forum are at different levels. I need help to pull this off since is the first time I'm actually "planning it". I'm trying to keep two girls attention in a loud club because the excuse is that I teach them how to dance salsa.
I also just want advice from people that have done it before. I wanna know how the situation escalated to it.

 

[Alle_Gory]

So you phrase it that way that doesn't look like you're strutting your stuff. Otherwise people assume you have it handled.

I would recommend asking the gents in the mature man section how you should handle this possible threesome.

 

[Scars]

I think I'm qualified to answer this, as I've had one before. You're right, the other girl can dance with whoever she wants, you're going out to have fun, but you also need to dance with her. Take turns, or if some how you can dance with them both, that would be the best. Also, make sure the girls are dancing as well. You need to get everyone comfortable to each others touch. This is not a problem with you and your girl, but the other girl has to be comfortable with you, and the girls have to be comfortable as well. Comfort will be the main factor in all of this. You're going to need more of it then just a regular pick-up. Use alcohol to your advantage as well. Spice them up with drinks so they are both relaxed. To get them kissing, simply say something like "Hey, I have an idea. I think you two should kiss" do it playfully after you've established some comfort and you guys are having a good time. You're probably going to have to make all the moves, and for your girl as well. Meaning, you have to instigate a lot. Keep coming up with all these "ideas". Direct them like a movie. Get them kissing. Then tell your girl to put her hand on cheek and stroke her. Tell her to travel her hand down to her breasts etc... you get the picture. Get everyone comfortable, and don't even verbalize the word 3some. Just make your actions clear of exactly what you want. Then, you slowly involve yourself into the picture and let passion take it's course. Hope this helps.

-Scars

 

[thedude4242]

3 somes are a waste of *****.