"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Three Simple Tips

Vatican

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1) Leave on a High Note
Follow the example of George Costanza (heh) and always leave on a high note, leaving your targets wanting more. When you leave on a high note people's minds get locked in on that last moment and what went on before becomes virtually irrelevant. That's why in arguments people are so adamant about getting the last word in. That fact is, in human interactions the last word is the only one that counts.

2) Humor + Touching (I'm getting more and more sick of the word "kino" for some reason)
If something's not going your way just put it out in the open, make fun of it, then go into tickling/laughing/joking/poking mode. This kind of attack scrambles people's brains and totally disarms them. Ex, Girl: "I don't know if we should do this..." You (sh*teating grin on your face): "What movie d'you get that from? What, you scared you can't handle me? I know, I know I'm too much man for ya..." Now, laughing, before she gets a chance to respond, poke her in the ribs and make her laugh along with you. This kind of simultaneous emotional (laughing) + sexual (touching) attack is devastatingly simple and effective.

3) Start off the way you want to end up. Don't shift gears half-way through talking to a woman and suddenly become some kind of sexual monster when you were androgynous just three seconds ago. Likewise, don't start sexual, then chicken out. When you start sexual and then stop being sexual it really devastates a woman (she thinks she did something horribly wrong), and it's a big turnoff for them as it is for us as well. You gotta follow through. This doesn't mean you should walk up to girls and start talking about f*cking them, but it does mean that you should show your sexual potential from the start, not hide it then spring out with it like a chump would when he gets some stupid notion in his head that the "time is right" (or that she's drunk enough)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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oh damn.... good sh*t, leaving on a high note is a definite must....

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SexPDX

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Originally posted by Vatican:

3) Start off the way you want to end up. Don't shift gears half-way through talking to a woman and suddenly become some kind of sexual monster when you were androgynous just three seconds ago.
Yep. Otherwise you look scatterbrained, inconsistent and indecisive. Not attractive. It took me a while to figure that one out.

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You either own the game or it owns you.

~"Paga attencion al latido de tu corazon...y el ritmo de tu respiracion...como te permites llegar a ser completamente llevada...por la conexion que esta tomando lugar." ~
 

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What is this

EDIT: BUMP
 
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Styles said:
What is this


You've asked that on like 3 of his threads. What the crap are you talking about?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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