"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Three Simple Tips

Vatican

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1) Leave on a High Note
Follow the example of George Costanza (heh) and always leave on a high note, leaving your targets wanting more. When you leave on a high note people's minds get locked in on that last moment and what went on before becomes virtually irrelevant. That's why in arguments people are so adamant about getting the last word in. That fact is, in human interactions the last word is the only one that counts.

2) Humor + Touching (I'm getting more and more sick of the word "kino" for some reason)
If something's not going your way just put it out in the open, make fun of it, then go into tickling/laughing/joking/poking mode. This kind of attack scrambles people's brains and totally disarms them. Ex, Girl: "I don't know if we should do this..." You (sh*teating grin on your face): "What movie d'you get that from? What, you scared you can't handle me? I know, I know I'm too much man for ya..." Now, laughing, before she gets a chance to respond, poke her in the ribs and make her laugh along with you. This kind of simultaneous emotional (laughing) + sexual (touching) attack is devastatingly simple and effective.

3) Start off the way you want to end up. Don't shift gears half-way through talking to a woman and suddenly become some kind of sexual monster when you were androgynous just three seconds ago. Likewise, don't start sexual, then chicken out. When you start sexual and then stop being sexual it really devastates a woman (she thinks she did something horribly wrong), and it's a big turnoff for them as it is for us as well. You gotta follow through. This doesn't mean you should walk up to girls and start talking about f*cking them, but it does mean that you should show your sexual potential from the start, not hide it then spring out with it like a chump would when he gets some stupid notion in his head that the "time is right" (or that she's drunk enough)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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oh damn.... good sh*t, leaving on a high note is a definite must....

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Originally posted by Vatican:

3) Start off the way you want to end up. Don't shift gears half-way through talking to a woman and suddenly become some kind of sexual monster when you were androgynous just three seconds ago.
Yep. Otherwise you look scatterbrained, inconsistent and indecisive. Not attractive. It took me a while to figure that one out.

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You either own the game or it owns you.

~"Paga attencion al latido de tu corazon...y el ritmo de tu respiracion...como te permites llegar a ser completamente llevada...por la conexion que esta tomando lugar." ~
 

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What is this

EDIT: BUMP
 
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Styles said:
What is this


You've asked that on like 3 of his threads. What the crap are you talking about?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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