Alrighty, time for my tip for the ... moment. Now, I notice some of you out there are having questions about approaching and closing. Let's start off with approaching and the three second rule.
Three seconds to approach: You see her accross the room/hall/bar/mall. Flowing hair, smile that could turn night to day, and a body that should have a warning on her curves. You look at her and she glances over towards you. Both of you are looking into each others eyes. You think to yourself "wow, I should go over and talk to her." But you wait. Then you think to yourself "but what if she has a boyfriend? What if she doesn't like me?" Now you have doubt. That my friends, is why the three second rule is good.
The three second rule has been around a while. Brought up a while back, it was the rule to follow for rising DJ's. It just states that you have a three second window to approach before you start having doubt. When you see that hot chick and your eyes lock, start moving before the three seconds. Once you have the wheels in motion, you won't back out. Things will flow. Now, if they start to flow, then keep the three minute rule in mind too.
Three minutes to get the number: Wow, you listened to the advice on the three second rule and now your actually talking to her! Good job! But don't meddle on with her for too long. Then you start to lose your sense of mystery. That is why there is the three minute rule. Without it, you could ruin something good.
You start talking to her and she starts asking questions. Before long, she knows your parents names, your job, how much you hate your boss, and what type of car you drive, but you don't know the thing you came for: her number. Once you start talking to her, ask some questions and use some kino. I won't go into detail here. You'll have to wait for "Crazykid's conversation and kino tips" soon. Once you're talking, let her feel comfortable around you. Then get her number. This shouldn't take more than three minutes.
It might take some time to get used to, so remeber: practice, practice, practice.
Three seconds to approach: You see her accross the room/hall/bar/mall. Flowing hair, smile that could turn night to day, and a body that should have a warning on her curves. You look at her and she glances over towards you. Both of you are looking into each others eyes. You think to yourself "wow, I should go over and talk to her." But you wait. Then you think to yourself "but what if she has a boyfriend? What if she doesn't like me?" Now you have doubt. That my friends, is why the three second rule is good.
The three second rule has been around a while. Brought up a while back, it was the rule to follow for rising DJ's. It just states that you have a three second window to approach before you start having doubt. When you see that hot chick and your eyes lock, start moving before the three seconds. Once you have the wheels in motion, you won't back out. Things will flow. Now, if they start to flow, then keep the three minute rule in mind too.
Three minutes to get the number: Wow, you listened to the advice on the three second rule and now your actually talking to her! Good job! But don't meddle on with her for too long. Then you start to lose your sense of mystery. That is why there is the three minute rule. Without it, you could ruin something good.
You start talking to her and she starts asking questions. Before long, she knows your parents names, your job, how much you hate your boss, and what type of car you drive, but you don't know the thing you came for: her number. Once you start talking to her, ask some questions and use some kino. I won't go into detail here. You'll have to wait for "Crazykid's conversation and kino tips" soon. Once you're talking, let her feel comfortable around you. Then get her number. This shouldn't take more than three minutes.
It might take some time to get used to, so remeber: practice, practice, practice.
Good reminder post.