Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Three nights in the valley

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I got laid three times (sunday through tuesday) by three different girls while going to night clubs in las vegas, completey random and unplanned. I did not pay for a single drink or any entry fees for the clubs. Infact sunday, and monday night I was actually invited to tables where I drank as much as i wanted at no charge. Honestly, I've got to say exactly NONE of this has helped my game in anyway shape or form. The girls i laid were hot and all but really the situations just formed around me the girls pretty much fell in my lap. True enough, I did have to recognize and deal with the situations when they showed up or they could have gone to sh*t but none the less, they were far from ordinary from what happens to other people. I explained the whole thing to some of my co workers (they're way too long to explain here...i'm too lazy) and there jaws literally dropped and they said they couldn't even see one night like that happening to them even less three especially in a row. I've come to these difinative conclusions about my gaming abilites. Either A. I'm VERY lucky and I only have to put forth minimal effort in order to suceed as my good fortuine eliminates most of the difficult portions or B. While some people have to amp themselves up in order to get "into the zone", I must have a a simple on and off switch for my zoning efforts as I'm in it a lot.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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you are in the kingdom.
 

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SELF-MASTERY said:
you are in the kingdom.
Yeah it's like the kingdom of easy yet hot p*ssy. I'm starting to get worried what it would be like If I left for somewhere else and actually TRIED to run game without my homefield advantage and set of tools that I've become so accustom to.
 
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