"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Three men steal lions food through confidence alone

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I tried that once with an opinion opener and didn't fare so well.
 

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I've seen clips like that before. They cut the meat and run before the lions reconsider why they ran away from the kill. No animal walks up to lions without fear, which is why it works. Homo Sapiens probably fed themselves this way for all of human history.
 

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these men are super tough

but the correlation to women is not the same we don't have the equivalent of the bow to bring to women....we did...it was called money when women were not allowed to work but we don't have that in 2012

if we approach women with bows and arrows and were known to sometimes shoot women...I'm sure they'd be wary of us too

lions ain't stupid :)

you can hold a gun and approach lions and they run...why? experience...they've seen humans kill with guns before.

you can only be as alpha as your ability to enforce it
 

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Id probably take a few steps and then panic and start jetting the other direction, causing the Lions to make us desert... :eek:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The lions become and unsure of themselves because the men's behavior is entirely outside of the lions' experience and expectations. Notice that the lions, who just a second ago were the kings & queens of the jungle became unsure of themselves and confused when faced with absolute assumed authority. They were witnessing what they thought was impossible and therefore their brains short-circuited, not knowing what to do but fascinated by the actions of the men.

Do any of you see a correlation between the hunter and the successful DJ? I personally enjoy much success with the very same technique. You can stun and confuse a woman by assuming absolute authority and taking that which you demonstrate is yours. Often this amounts to territory and the direction of the conversation. Never forget those hunters. Stun and confuse your prey by being that which she does not expect, with assumed authority.
 

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proof that you dont need big cajones to get laid.




but you do need them to take meat from a pack of lions.
 

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doesn't make sense to me as there were 10 or so lions.

What we probably didn't see where a bunch of men behind the camera/camera man with guns incase the lions did attack the 3 men.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The way to stop a wild animal from engaging its instinct is to act in an unexpected way. Rather, this behavior will trigger its "caution" instinct.

Some men have been stalked by mountain lions, tigers, etc. and were not attacked by zig-zagging around, making noise, clapping, singing, and essentially doing extremely unpredictable things. In a situation like that the animal cannot be sure of the outcome and therefore holds back.

I wouldn't want to test it though.

I'd like to hire those three guys to help me approach. I would cower behind them as we all walked up to a 5-set and then pop out and ask the girls who lies more, men or women? If one made fun of me I could always have one of my wings menace her with his machete. Hey, times are tough, so whatever works, I say.
 
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