"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ok here is the situation.... friend lives in a city a few hours away, and due to having a very young child, she moved into her parents house while on mat leave.

Went on a bowling/ pool outting few weeks,ago, and Im going to visit again. She says she'll have 3 hours.... 7 pm - 10 pm. Have been reading the DJ bible... and curious what type of outing would best lead to some heavy touching when its obvious we are so restricted. dancing is out, diner is boring...any suggestions ? something with maximum "kino"....
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bring a bottle of wine and take her to a secluded park with a swingset and go on the swings with her while sipping from the bottle. I've had so much success with this formula. The swingset creates instant rapport and makes you look fun/unique. The wine obviously is to loosen inhibitions a bit. After swinging and drinking, grab her waist and pull a makeout. Proceed from there. Nighttime in a park just creates a ridiculously great atmosphere
 
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Genuis... but shes unable to drink due to baby.. I'll have to remember that one!!
 
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