"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Three day growth, or not. Which do you find women prefer?

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There has been a lot of b!tching on this site lately.
So - something a little lighter.

Do your gf/s, plates, wives, fvckbuddies - prefer a clean shaven military look,
or or Miami Vice three day growth?

I heard on our local news the other day, that some study (fvck knows where, who or why) that the stubble look came out tops as far as women were preferred.

Whats your experience?

My last gf hated beard burn. Then again, she was a whining irish sap.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I find most women prefer a bit of stubble, but you gotta have the nice full, marlboro man stubble. Not that patchy beatnik fuzz.
 

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I love a little stubble.

My ex would keep his stubble for a few days because I loved it, but he couldn't maintain it for any time past that, he hated anything but a clean look. I also hated when he'd get his hair cut, loved that thick curly messy hair.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Facial hair is inherently masculine. It's one of those things that show you are a man "at a glance".

Do women prefer it? You're gonna get mixed answers, even from women themselves, but I would say that it would help your game more often than it would hurt it.
 

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The key is to just do it, and whatever you do don't ask a chick if she likes it or not. If you are going to have the 3 day stubble, then you have to act like you are a 3 day stubble kind of guy. You must Not Give A **** what anyone thinks, you have more important **** going on than remembering or caring to shave.
 

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Three day stubble is almost a beard for me, but they love the one day.
 

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Ah, well I don't have any trouble with the patchy stuff. Mediterranean descent, so I am a hairy sonofb!tch.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Da Realist said:
Depends on what they're feeling it with...
True, I've seen rashes that looked like I took a brillo pad to 'em...
 

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Zunder said:
Ah, well I don't have any trouble with the patchy stuff. Mediterranean descent, so I am a hairy sonofb!tch.
Hehe, same here. Got that proportionately full chest hair and hairy legs too, as well as of course a nice thick healthy mane. It's nice to be an Italian/Turk.:D
 

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I always try to keep the five o'clock shadow going(when I'm not at work). Really brings out the Mediterranean in me.
 
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Hairy negs.

edger said:
Hehe, same here. Got that proportionately full chest hair and hairy legs too, as well as of course a nice thick healthy mane. It's nice to be an Italian/Turk.:D
I was shaving at 12, and could easily have grown a decent beard by 14.

I was called monkey legs and ape man all through high school (by both guys and girls). I'd come home from school and find a little toy ape in my letterbox in an envelope with my name on it.
Affected me a bit at the time - but, you know the old old old saying, that which doesn't kill you.....blah blah.......but as I got older I realised most women dug this hairy beast they woke up with. Was kind of different for them I guess, with all the hairless toads they must have gone out with previously.

Then last year, I went on a low carb diet, and trained like an animal with the weights, and totally transformed my body in less than 6 months. For that I shaved down every month or so, and fuk me if I couldn't actually see a sixpack. Fukn thing was covered under a carpet of, no, a fukn forest of hair my whole life! LOL

I am thinking of starting a blog (a blog about fuk knows what) and if I do, I will post before and afters, and talk a little about low carb diets.

Back to the taunting....perhaps because of what I went through at school thanks to my fathers genes - I know negs are a big part of Game - but I can never bring myself to neg and/or taunt like pr!ck, there has to be some good natured humour, without actually demeaning the woman involved. That sounds harder than it is, but I think I have always have had a good sense of humour which helps. You can be sarcastically funny negger, without being a demeaning azzhole.
 

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Zunder said:
I am thinking of starting a blog (a blog about fuk knows what) and if I do, I will post before and afters, and talk a little about low carb diets.

Blog now up and running. First post is on low carb diet, and my before and after pics. http://zunderdownunder.wordpress.com/
Y'all can see check out what the hairy bast@rd Zunder looks like.
I did shave down fully for the last pic.

Next post might be on exercise.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I myself feel more confident when I'm clean shaven. At my tender age of 49, some of my day old whiskers have a tinge of gray in them therefore aging me.
 

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Zunder said:
I was called monkey legs and ape man all through high school (by both guys and girls).
I can't say it's that extreme for me. The amount of hair I have is just right...not excessive and definitely not a little. Just right. It looks great. Very sexy.
 

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white sox bill said:
I myself feel more confident when I'm clean shaven. At my tender age of 49, some of my day old whiskers have a tinge of gray in them therefore aging me.
what about that stuff thats used on grey hair? grecian? no reason that wouldn't work on your whiskers too!
 

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Zunder said:
what about that stuff thats used on grey hair? grecian? no reason that wouldn't work on your whiskers too!
Yes it does. When I had a goatee I used it. But went a tad too dark, looked kinda funny
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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