"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Three cats and a dog.. red flag?

MillionBillionaire

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Screening this girl I have a date with on Black Friday.. she tells me she has three cats and a dog... I personally could care less for pets with all the hair and odor. If she is a good enough woman I could look past all the critters.. my question is.. is this a pre curser to red flags? Is this a red flag? Or is it yellow flag.. I would call someone with 4 cats a crazy cat lady but she has 3 and a dog...

other than this.. her IL is high and she qualifys on paper for a ltr..
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Three cats is a red flag for mine, especially if she is obsessed with them.

I could tolerate a girl having one cat, but only if she wasn't obsessed with it.
 

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Girl I'm seeing has 4 cats.

She's definitely bpd but then so am i so I figure we're a good match.
 

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Well considering I am rebounding HARD from a 23 yo crazy slvt b1tch latina that had a baby boy and was living with a baby daddy... I think this would be a weak red flag at the worst

But you guys are not telling me what I want to hear considering her high I.L.
 

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An excess of two cats is a red flag for me. Once have 3+ you've crossed over into crazy cat lady in the making status. Those little fvckers start breeding and the next thing you know she's got 20.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The problem is that they tend to find it harder and harder to say "no" to adding another cat into the mix (and not a dog, as they're a lot more work). Hang around them long enough and you'll see them drown in sorrow and pity upon spotting a stray cat on the streets, always tempted to take him/her home.

The bigger problem is that the baggage of living with these animals becomes the norm and before you know it, it's not uncommon to find hairballs/vomit scattered around the house, a puddle of piss somewhere else, kitty litter box in the bathroom. I love my Mom, but I don't know how my Dad did it. Maybe explains why the only reason he'd leave his man cave was to eat, use the bathroom, or go to sleep, and even there he wasn't completely removed from the cats and dogs, as they slept in the master bedroom too. They eventually take over the house, thanks to the grand enabler ...her.
 

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I wouldn't look at the number of pets she has, but how she takes care of them. Does she clean the liter box regularly? Does her house smell like cat pi$$ or does she keep it fresh. Most women who have pets don't take care of them properly. You don't need 3 cats to see that, you can see it with one. On the other hand, my sister has 4 cats and a Pitbull dog, but you wouldn't know it when you walk in her house. You never see so much as a cat hair on her floor or a peace of litter laying outside the box. She takes better care of these animals than most women do their kids.
 

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Not if she kept the cats from the same litter. Who really cares about how aniimals she has? I've known crazy ass girls who had no pets at all. Screen how she is acting, not how many pets she has.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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