Threatened by physcho plate

[zinc4]

Have been having sex with this girl lately and then went no contact on her when she randomly added my little sister on FB...i tend to attract a lot of these nutcases lately...

She just messaged me on skype saying i made her sick ok WTF? Then i tell her i don't like her randomly adding and messaging my family members...then she tells me your family is so beautiful....you are such the backship of the family...

I ignored her insult and then she goes on to tell me think of your life and what u are doing, you better be thanful for it or something could happen...i then say are u threatneing me?? she then says just take my advice..

Now, normally i wouldn't be worried but she knows where i live and she is fillipina and a lot of fillipino guys here want to fight me because i pump and dump a lot of girls they are going after and Asians in general are the biggest white knighters in the world and butt hurt fags about other races getting with their women...mostof them are comlete hypocites on the matter and have wife and children in the phillipines and are banging other women here in Taiwan....

So i blocked her and reported her on skype and did the same on FB...seriously guys stay away from fillpinas the majority of them are all batsh&t crazy...

 

[TheException]

I think you simply invited her sh1tty behavior here. Made something that was not a big deal (her friend requesting family) and made it into one. Then of course you fuel the flames with this little beauty....i then say are u threatneing me??

The best way to deal with fights/arguments/disagreements....is to NOT DEAL with them.

"Hence to fight and conquer in all your battles is not supreme excellence; supreme excellence consists in breaking the enemy's resistance without fighting." - Sun Tzu

 

[zinc4]

Not big deal?? It's creepy as hell....i don't want people randomly adding my family members...

And yes, i am worried about her threatning me because she has guy friends who would love to beat me up and she knows here i live...i had already ignored this chick for a week straight and she was talking about wanting a future with me which already caused me to go distant...she was essentially doing this out of retalliation that i pumped and dumped her...

 

[instantnoodles]

Are you sure you don't belong in the HIGH SCHOOL forum? Seem kinda young for your age

Now that you know she's a psycho, here's some advice: IGNORE HER and avoid all conflict ASAP. DO NOTA DEAL WITH THEM.

 

[zinc4]

Are you sure you don't belong in the HIGH SCHOOL forum? Seem kinda young for your age

Now that you know she's a psycho, here's some advice: IGNORE HER and avoid all conflict ASAP. DO NOTA DEAL WITH THEM.

I didn't even argue back and blocked her...u don't understand what i am worried about..there is a large group of Phillipinos here who want of beat the crap out of me maybe even worse...they view it as a white guy bangs all of their women and treat them like *****s...they take it very seriously and even tried trapping me and a foreign friend in a bar one night here but i escaped by running out when their backs were turned and once i hit the street they couldn't do anyhting because it's Taiwan..but inside their bar hey were ready to possibly kill me...Phillipinos don't mess round...so next time try reading better...it's a potentially very serious situation because she knows where i live and her friends have already threatened me.

 

[Mike32ct]

The more serious question is how much longer do you plan to stay in Asia and play this dangerous game?

I never agreed with whole "move to xyz country and bang lots of chicks." Sure, it's great for a while, but eventually you can end up with local guys after you. I don't think it's a uniquely Asian thing. It could happen anywhere.

I'm not necessarily saying buy a plane ticket tomorrow, but do you have an exit plan or do you really like it where you live and want to stay long term?

 

[zinc4]

The more serious question is how much longer do you plan to stay in Asia and play this dangerous game?

I never agreed with whole "move to xyz country and bang lots of chicks." Sure, it's great for a while, but eventually you can end up with local guys after you. I don't think it's a uniquely Asian thing. It could happen anywhere.

I'm not necessarily saying buy a plane ticket tomorrow, but do you have an exit plan or do you really like it where you live and want to stay long term?

I didn't move here for the women...if women were the deciding factor, I would have went to Thailand or the Phillipines or even China for that matter..i moved here to study kungfu...i could have went to China, but i prefer Taiwan because it is a semi tropical island and i love the ocean and coast in general.

PlusPair...I don't try to use women, i just can't stay attracted to them for that long. Let's not be a white knight about this....women are hardly innocent creatures and will do the same in a heart beat once they lose attraction.

 

[AAAgent]

What do you expect? You move to a foreign country where the majority of the people are chinese. The filipino's in taiwan are probably immigrants and part of the minority. They see a white man which leads to a better life. You go in and pump and dump them. People a small tight knit community, word will spread. What do you expect?

Make it clear form the get go next time. You're not in this for the long haul and it's up to them if they want to stay or go.

 

[Mike32ct]

I didn't move here for the women...if women were the deciding factor, I would have went to Thailand or the Phillipines or even China for that matter..i moved here to study kungfu...i could have went to China, but i prefer Taiwan because it is a semi tropical island and i love the ocean and coast in general.

I can understand and respect that. Just be careful and maybe tone down the PUA stuff a bit so you stay a bit more under the radar. That's all.

Good luck man.

 

[zinc4]

What do you expect? You move to a foreign country where the majority of the people are chinese. The filipino's in taiwan are probably immigrants and part of the minority. They see a white man which leads to a better life. You go in and pump and dump them. People a small tight knit community, word will spread. What do you expect?

Make it clear form the get go next time. You're not in this for the long haul and it's up to them if they want to stay or go.

I just think it's ridiculous how if it's a female people are always going to feel sorry for them or feel like they were wronged. I told all of them i was leaving very soon before we hooked up.

 

[Brosy]

Do this: http://youtu.be/KGL_vNtelrM

Especially the windmilling.

 

[iamnobody]

Oh, this brings back memories... Going home wasted around midnight, an ex turned into stalker coming out of the dark to give me a letter, me sobering up instantly, visually checking for an ice pick or a weapon (almost kidding), telling her ot go home...
Was odd though, a few times when I came home with chicks, some got freaked out, other got turned on even more. I think a stalker can be useful in that regard.
Zinc, pay no attention whatsoever. This is the only way to go. Mine eventually dissapeared after 6-7 of months.

 

[backseatjuan]

Are you threatening me? WTF lol. You watch too much cartoons and hollywood **** and you are all stuck in it. No nuts to go over to her, wrap some wire around her neck, and explain nicely what you think of her? I guess not.

 

[iamnobody]

go over to her, wrap some wire around her neck, and explain nicely what you think of her

I like this.

 

[zinc4]

Are you threatening me? WTF lol. You watch too much cartoons and hollywood **** and you are all stuck in it. No nuts to go over to her, wrap some wire around her neck, and explain nicely what you think of her? I guess not.

If you knew the Phillipino community here you would quickly realize it is no laughing matter. This is Asia, not the US. I saw someone get his arm cut off with a machete for much less and then had to beg for his life while on the ground in a pool of blood...

This girl has plenty of guy friends who want to get at me really badly..

Also, i am not telling the whole story...i met this crazy American a while back and we got drunk at a phillipino bar..long story short, the guy ended hitting a girl at the bar...i tried to quickly leave and several guys grabbed me and told me to that i had to sit down with my friend that they had something in store for us...i was guilty by association and there was no talking my way out of it...I knew we were doomed basically...out don't hit one of their women and expect no repercussions......they were literally forming a possy right in front of our eyes and some had knives......i waited util both the bouncers had their backs turned and i jumped up and bolted for the door as fast as i could and petty much jumped down the stairs as the 2 bouncers were organizing the group of guys or the beatdown...

a few chased after me but i made it onto the street and saw a Taiwanese police car and approached it then they retreated....i tried to talk t the police and after 5 mins of very broken english they shrugged me off and drove way..i got a taxi immediately and got out of there..probably to take turns beating the idiot that i was with to a pulp...maybe kill him who knows....i tried to get him to run with me but he was completely wasted and i was not going to get into serious trouble for a total stranger who started trouble for no other reason than being drunk out of his mind...it is only Phillipinos up there and they could do whatever they wanted to......

I have several Phillipino friends around here and they all heard about what happened and told me i was very lucky to escape that there is a good chance they stabbed and killed the other guy and that i need to avoid those places near the bars at all costs....

so considering this chick has been to my apartment, yeah, i am a little worried about her friends...they already wanted to take me out before this. I'm thinking about moving to a different city before i leave.

 

[VladPatton]

People just don't wanna learn that Facebook is the worse thing that can come between you and a plate. Now you have family members involved in a fiasco because of it. What a mess. Stop using your real name on Facebook and tell girls you don't use it. It'll save you a world of trouble. Use it for your family (if you must), not for psychos you don't know. They have no business snooping on your family member's photos and life events.

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

People just don't wanna learn that Facebook is the worse thing that can come between you and a plate. Now you have family members involved in a fiasco because of it. What a mess. Stop using your real name on Facebook and tell girls you don't use it. It'll save you a world of trouble. Use it for your family (if you must), not for psychos you don't know. They have no business snooping on your family member's photos and life events.

This was the first thing that came to mind when I read your original post. Your whole situation is what could happen when you get involved with the wrong chick, they have brother's, friends, white knight orbiters, that would love a reason to kick the $hit out of someone all in the name of justice, while coming out of it a hero.

You said you didn't lead her on, that's good. It's possible to be able to date a bunch of chicks but you've always got to have your head up, and try to understand her, and what she's thinking and how she views the relationship. There's nothing worse than a crazy woman scorned. You can game girls but constantly lying to them or feeding them a bunch of crap will eventually catch up to you. (not saying you did this OP)

You're in a tough spot, nothing worse than living in fear or having to constantly look over your shoulder. Me? I'd lay low or move. You can stand your ground, ride the wave, eventually they may show you respect and accept you. But it would be risking a lot.

 

[Bible_Belt]

You know, you could just learn to break up with girls a little better, so that their friends and family don't want to kill you. All it takes is a simple conversation where you tell her what she needs to hear.