"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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mattyvv

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If you found the cure for cancer, would you tell it to someone else before you make billions off it?

just a thought...



not trying to start a war just wondering what others think
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You dont just 'find' a cure there are hundreds of millions of £ of research being done on it. Who ever is doing this research is going to want to make that money back!
 

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ok, maybe I phrased it bad.

if you had the cure for cancer (the game curing guys) would you share it with a RIVAL company (women) and tell them all your secrets.

just a thought..
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Badmannaz said:
WTF???I don't get this thread?!!:nervous:
I think it has something to do with allowing women to know the DJs "Secrets of the Universe" thus deminishing the effectiveness of those secrets. It's like the publishing of "The Game II." It'll be the end to DJism as we know it... :nervous:
 

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i dont think it's a big deal....the main thing your supposed to get from this site is that

a)women should compliment your life not complete it
b)stand up for yourself when it comes to women treating you like with disrespect
c)concentrate on what makes you happy (not women)

the other stuff is just to help you get there....if they've got a problem with it, it's their problem
 
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