"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Thoughts on this older women wanting sex (Never had this before)

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Hey, I need some thoughts on this 34 year old women I met on Tinder. I'm 24.

I've been skeptical about this women on Tinder, I want to see your opinion about this since something like this has never happened to me before, i've had a lot of failed attempts this year even meeting up with women or talking to them. I've talked to so many this year so when a women is actually showing some kind of interest it makes me skeptical of her especially this women.

We met on Tinder and basically had a small conversation that had a lot of interest (her asking the questions) which slowly led to her ASKING ME about sexual favors off the top. Like if I eat out *****. Telling me that she doesn't give BJs but wants me to go down on her.. (WHAT??) I didn't bring up anything sexual to her besides the fact I told her I'm not looking for anything serious, I was being honest. Which led to us talking about sex and eventually I got her number. I've never met someone who approached me like this in the last year.

So I got her number and we text for little and I send her pictures now shes texting short and distant but wants me to come to her place and see her tomorrow. I set up the date and didn't text her after that over the way her texts where coming out. I'll text her tomorrow and see if the date is still on at her place. She wants no strings attached sex, she doesn't want a boyfriend, and she lives alone. I'm young but I feel like she only wants me to eat her ***** and thats it, I don't really want to get played like this and really don't feel comfortable about any of this since it's the first time its happen to me.

What do you guys think and what should I do?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Yeah man, i'd show up and bang her no oral and leave.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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No bj, not eating pvssy.

Just show up and pound her @ss and then bounce. Have fun with it but DO NOT let her control your frame ("you eat my pvssy but I'm not sucking c0ck")....thats bs.
Treat her like the wh0re she is and wants to be.
 

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Now shes asking me to send a photo of my id to identify my information?

This **** is getting more sketchy
 

Billtx49

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Now shes asking me to send a photo of my id to identify my information?

This **** is getting more sketchy
Alarm bells…
Never share personal ID information with anyone you do not already very personally know. DL's and other documents can be replicated. We're talking an identity theft attempt here.
Probably why she came onto you so hard online also. Get a guy horned up, then get his info. After that, the meet up never happens.
 
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QuadDeuces

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Now shes asking me to send a photo of my id to identify my information?

This **** is getting more sketchy
Well she is inviting a stranger over to her house so if you rape or rob her she wants to know who you are.
Also, maybe you are being raped or robbed by a gang of men when you go to the house.
Suggest to meet on neutral territory instead to eliminate both those problems.

Then smash the shyte out of her, older women love being fvcked, are experienced and are excellent no strings attached fvckbuddies.
 
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