"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Thoughts on this girl and what she said

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Die Hard

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Interesting. She's basically 'one of the guys' from SoSuave.......in a chick's body.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Warrior74

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I know its wrong, but I really do not like a woman who curses. Its really a turn off for me. Maybe because I have never heard my mother curse growing up, nor most of the women in my neighborhood. The only woman I knew growing up who cursed was the single divorced hairdresser next door who constantly had men in and out and was a ****ty mom. I guess I associate women who curse with being low class. That being said, I see nothing wrong with men cursing. Yes, double standards for the win.
 

DMSR76

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Warrior74 said:
I know its wrong, but I really do not like a woman who curses. Its really a turn off for me. Maybe because I have never heard my mother curse growing up, nor most of the women in my neighborhood. The only woman I knew growing up who cursed was the single divorced hairdresser next door who constantly had men in and out and was a ****ty mom. I guess I associate women who curse with being low class. That being said, I see nothing wrong with men cursing. Yes, double standards for the win.
You're not wrong. It's just not a feminine trait.
 
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