"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Thoughts on this daygame opener?????

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Guys - Is this a good daygame opener.

What with it having been valentines day this week - I was thinking of opening with:-

Me: So, let me run this by you to see what you think of this

HB: Go ahead

Me: Ok - On valentines day, one of my friends rings me up frantically. She's stuck at work all day - she forgot it was valentines day and hasn't bought her bf anything. Yeah, a girl forgot valentines day!!!!
HB: Shock shock horror.

Me: ANYWAY, she teaches at a school, and could no way get out and buy anything. So, I work in a busy area and she begs and pleads with me to buy something for him. I eventually cave in, and reluctantly buy some chocolates and a card for some dude! (I used self service so no-one would think a dude was my valentine!) Anyway, what do you make of that? A load of panic for nothing or what? Do you think valentines day is worth all the effort
HB: Answer + convo about dating etc.

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What do you guys think? Obviously its opinion opener, and I thought it was pretty good...but is it a bit gay to involved buying sh!t for a dude??

I just figured its quite light hearted and funny. FYI I intend to use this to open some chick in my area who works at a bar??

Thoughts please
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sorry about the multiple threads. My browser went a bit nuts when I submitted.
 
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Ok then, do you think it is stupid?

The thing is, game tends to be all about being cool etc. But, I am a fun person, and I like funny stories etc. and have a sense of humour, so I would like to include that in the way I approach?

What you think?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I think that your "game" is stuffed with horse sh*t. And too wordy.

Try this:

Walk over and say "Hey, I saw you from [wherever you first saw her at] and I wanted to mee you."

Take it from there.

None of this "opinion opener" horse sh*t, a woman appreciates it when a man knows what he wants and goes out to get it.
 
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Vice said:
I think that your "game" is stuffed with horse sh*t. And too wordy.

Try this:

Walk over and say "Hey, I saw you from [wherever you first saw her at] and I wanted to meet you."

Take it from there.

None of this "opinion opener" horse sh*t, a woman appreciates it when a man knows what he wants and goes out to get it.
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Agreed. Words don't ever really matter. Keep it short.

And your story is about YOU buying valentine's day gifts for SOME DUDE. i.e. doing something for a girl you aren't even sleeping with, like a wvssy chump.

You don't see what's wrong with that?

But did you try it out?
 
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Vice said:
I think that your "game" is stuffed with horse sh*t. And too wordy.

Try this:

Walk over and say "Hey, I saw you from [wherever you first saw her at] and I wanted to mee you."

Take it from there.

None of this "opinion opener" horse sh*t, a woman appreciates it when a man knows what he wants and goes out to get it.
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I'd go with something like this, with a genuine smile on your face. No point beating around the bush, short, simple, friendly and direct.
 
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F!DELITY said:
Guys - Is this a good daygame opener.

What with it having been valentines day this week - I was thinking of opening with:-

Me: So, let me run this by you to see what you think of this

HB: Go ahead

Me: Ok - On valentines day, one of my friends rings me up frantically. She's stuck at work all day - she forgot it was valentines day and hasn't bought her bf anything. Yeah, a girl forgot valentines day!!!!
HB: Shock shock horror.

Me: ANYWAY, she teaches at a school, and could no way get out and buy anything. So, I work in a busy area and she begs and pleads with me to buy something for him. I eventually cave in, and reluctantly buy some chocolates and a card for some dude! (I used self service so no-one would think a dude was my valentine!) Anyway, what do you make of that? A load of panic for nothing or what? Do you think valentines day is worth all the effort
HB: Answer + convo about dating etc.

------------------------------------

What do you guys think? Obviously its opinion opener, and I thought it was pretty good...but is it a bit gay to involved buying sh!t for a dude??

I just figured its quite light hearted and funny. FYI I intend to use this to open some chick in my area who works at a bar??

Thoughts please
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If the results were good, then you should go with it. Simple.
 
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