SeymourCake
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I think it's f*cking insane. I did not know it was this bad.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Thoughts on this chart? (Study on how much women sleep around)
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I think it's f*cking insane. I did not know it was this bad.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
AttackFormation
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If this was done by interview, the numbers are on a far lower end than in reality. Of course you can tell it's bullsh!t just by looking at the numbers too.
Women lie even on anonymous surveys and only begin to tell the whole truth when they believe with conviction that they are hooked to a lie detector and tell the truth because they think they can't lie. Doubtlessly many of them still try of course, and if they're actually not connected to one but just think they are, you still can't tell.
The bottomline for me is I'd rather be safe than sorry, and will look at women as not suitable for any kind of commitment, until proven otherwise.
Women lie even on anonymous surveys and only begin to tell the whole truth when they believe with conviction that they are hooked to a lie detector and tell the truth because they think they can't lie. Doubtlessly many of them still try of course, and if they're actually not connected to one but just think they are, you still can't tell.
The bottomline for me is I'd rather be safe than sorry, and will look at women as not suitable for any kind of commitment, until proven otherwise.
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icantgetlaid
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lol i love this quote .. everybody by default looks at it the other way around .. but i like the idea of assuming that she's not right off the bat .. and letting her fight the uphill battle of proving otherwise.
amazingswayze
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~10% of all women 15-44 are virgins? ok.
Bible_Belt
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According to the chart, if I were a woman, I would be a big wh0re.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Stagger Lee
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I think females only count and report serious LTRs in their sex partners count. A median of 3-4 sounds like the number of serious LTR most women have. They don't count and report the much more numerous ONS, STR, FBs and FWBs they have had, since those don't 'count' as legitimate they rationalize.