"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Thoughts on this chart? (Study on how much women sleep around)

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I think it's f*cking insane. I did not know it was this bad.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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If this was done by interview, the numbers are on a far lower end than in reality. Of course you can tell it's bullsh!t just by looking at the numbers too.

Women lie even on anonymous surveys and only begin to tell the whole truth when they believe with conviction that they are hooked to a lie detector and tell the truth because they think they can't lie. Doubtlessly many of them still try of course, and if they're actually not connected to one but just think they are, you still can't tell.

The bottomline for me is I'd rather be safe than sorry, and will look at women as not suitable for any kind of commitment, until proven otherwise.
 
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The bottomline for me is I'd rather be safe than sorry, and will look at women as not suitable for any kind of commitment, until proven otherwise.
lol i love this quote .. everybody by default looks at it the other way around .. but i like the idea of assuming that she's not right off the bat .. and letting her fight the uphill battle of proving otherwise.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I think females only count and report serious LTRs in their sex partners count. A median of 3-4 sounds like the number of serious LTR most women have. They don't count and report the much more numerous ONS, STR, FBs and FWBs they have had, since those don't 'count' as legitimate they rationalize.
 
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