Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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lizardking82

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There is this girl whose sister I know since some time now, her sister would bang me, but she a bit too raw for me, don't like her that much though I have kept contact and we respect each other.

Now her little sister is also a painter, like the older sister, and she wants me to take some pics of her. The pics will be half erotic and at first, we decided to do the pics at her place, she lives with her two other sisters and her brother. However, she tells me today "the house is not available since my brother gonna be here, should we do them at your place?"

This girl has been somewhat flirtish towards me, I could say, but I am in a bit of a doubt as how to handle this.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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lizardking82

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On a second thought, fak it. I will not bring her to my place since my place is a mess and is not a place to take pics in.
 
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