"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Thoughts on rejection-- and this is wierd too eh

IamtheAlphamale

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K so I got this chicks number and facebook and she gave me a number of a guy named kim. Thats so wierd. Anyways she gave me the right facebook info and I just sent her a very umm.. interesting message. I'm not mad or anything I just asked her out again :) Anyways its funny rejection. Rejection is like just a building block to the person who you want to become. It takes lots of rejection and lots of success to become who you want to be. I don't look at rejection anymore like they don't like me because I know if I had enough time with them they would like me. I just look at it like I made a mistake in my game and I need to learn from whatever it may have been. Its funny how much you change when you actually apply what you have learned about life from this website. Sometimes I think I am cursed. This is gonna sound really wierd but when I was really young I may have made a deal with the devil. In that deal I asked that women be done by skill and that I may be the best looking guy ever and stuff like that but I also said other things and so far it seems like I am cursed because of it. This is a really wierd post but.. I kind of am wondering if I will be able to ever have a long term relationship again with a girl because I have already met what I thought of as the deal. I realize how wierd this sounds but its just something I remember. Anyways I have definately fooled around with more girls than in that deal but relationship wise its not looking good. I dunno if I want a relationship or what I want. Generally when girls throw themselves at me, I know anti dump says go for them or whatever. And they are really hot girls too but I like am not interested in those ones. I always follow the ones who are a challenge and the thing is I know its just a fake challenge most of the time but still.. I dunno I am pretty hung over but this was more of a rant I guess. Peace
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Mjazz

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just to let you know, no one will read this, use more spaces or post a smaller concise summary
 
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