"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Thoughts on Glutamine, 2 weeks so far

The_flying_dutchman

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So I've been seeing promising stuff about glutamine on youtube so I decided to give it a shot.

Supposedly it helps you recover from soreness quicker. I haven't noticed any change in recovery time so far.

But what I have noticed is that it's making me less hungry. I normally eat like a king but ever since I started glutamine my appetite has been reduced by at least half.

This is actually listed as a known side effect of taking glutamine but in my opinion it's not an "adverse" side effect, I think it might actually be beneficial since it might help me cut down for summer.

The only adverse side effect I've experienced so far is nausea when i took a little bit too much it at one point. My best recommendation would be to take it in small multiple doses to avoid nausea.

I'm gonna give it at least 2 months before deciding whether to continue or discontinue use.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Are you talking about glutamine chondroitin? If so, I believe it's for joint health more than recovery; that's why I use it, anyway. My joints were giving out before my workout was over and it was crippling me. If you're interested in recovery, have you tried creatine? I've used creatine before some of my most intense workouts and I wake up the next day as if I never went to the gym.
 

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You're referring to "glucosamine" and yes I take those too.
 

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Ah. I don't know anything about glutamine, but I do heavily recommend creatine for recovery. If glutamine supresses your appetite, then I might have to give it a shot. I'm trying to get to 9% BF and it'd help me lose that hardest bit.
 

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DoctorCoops said:
Ah. I don't know anything about glutamine, but I do heavily recommend creatine for recovery. If glutamine supresses your appetite, then I might have to give it a shot. I'm trying to get to 9% BF and it'd help me lose that hardest bit.

I would recommend the powder form over the pill form.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The_flying_dutchman

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Espi said:
Hey Dutchman I'm more curious about your motivation. Are you looking to lose weight?

I'm 50/50 on supplements. I'm not convinced they're needed. I personally believe that drinking a gallon of water and eating veggies daily helped me maintain an intense physical level of fitness while decreasing my calories.

Moreso about cutting... but on a cut, you still have to lift heavy to maintain the gainz....

I've been doing jump rope and sprinting intervals for cardio and lifting heavy.

I haven't noticed any quicker recovery from the glutamine, I've only noticed that it's curbing my appetite.
 

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To me gluta makes my muscles more full, gives me more endurance in the gym and faster recovery between session.

I read that before bed on empty stomach increase GH but I avoid doing it since it makes me too vigilant, cant fall asleep, same effect of bcaa at night.
 

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The_flying_dutchman said:
Moreso about cutting... but on a cut, you still have to lift heavy to maintain the gainz....

I've been doing jump rope and sprinting intervals for cardio and lifting heavy.

I haven't noticed any quicker recovery from the glutamine, I've only noticed that it's curbing my appetite.
Cutting and bulking are for people on steroids. If you aren't taking steroids there is no need to cut or bulk, there is only the need to go slow and steadily upwards in terms of weight/volume, etc.

Caloric/Carb cycling is also a great tool to help drop bodyfat while maintaining strength as wel...
 

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I started taking glutamine at the beginning of june and we're now near the 1 month mark.

In my absolute honest opinion:

* I have noticed that my recovery time has sped up just a little, but honestly I've always adapted to workout fairly quickly so I'm not even sure if it's the glutamine or if it's just my physiology. For the sake of argument, even if it's the glutamine, it's really not even a big difference -- maybe a 1 day decrease in recovery time at best.

* It does a great job of suppressing my appetite. Particularly my evening cravings for junk food.

So I would say so far I'm quite pleased with the glutamine due to the fact that it prevents me from craving junk food. Since I'm on a cut, this is definitely something positive.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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