"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Thoughts on getting back with ex's

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TillTheEndOfTime

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Getting back with an ex is like paying more to fix a car than it would cost to buy a brand new one. Don't do it. Move on. Save your money.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by TillTheEndOfTime
Getting back with an ex is like paying more to fix a car than it would cost to buy a brand new one. Don't do it. Move on. Save your money.
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I agree with this for the most part. If you're playing the feild and what not don't get too hung up on trying to get a girl back after you had breif relationship. You're only hurting yourself working towards something that's really not that much of a commoditiy.

But If you were in a really big LTR and you're with a girl you have plans on spending the rest of your life with, then you might want to think things over before nextin her cause of some misunderstanding or fight you had.
 
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i think it depends on the reasons you both broke up! like ^^ said. im not back nor am i emotionally attatched to my ex but i still sleep with her from time to time, not sure if thats a smart move though, wouldnt recommend it
 
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If it was a long relationship and either of you still have feelings it is a bad move to get back with an ex... This girl I was with for 1.5 years is still in love with me 8 months after breaking up and wants to get back together... as awesome as the sex would be, I know things would get messy soon. Any of the times I've gotten back together with ex's has not worked out too well at all... and friends that continue to hang out with their ex's and hook up with them just get stuck and kill their game with other girls.
 
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