Thoughts on David DeAngelo's email and number close.

[Canadian Catnip]

So I did the David DeAngelo email and number close on a girl about a month ago.

In case people don't know how it's done, you ask the girl if she has email and if she says yes you give her a pen and paper and say "Write it down." and as she is writing out her email you say "Write down your phone number too."

So back to my story, I did the number close and phoned this girl and thought I had a date but she flaked on me.

I was talking to a person I know, he comes from a sales background, and told him about the girl and the call and the whole situation and he asked me how did she give me her number.

I told him how I did it and how it was a technique I had learned and he tells me something very interesting. He said that how I asked her for the number was an old sales trick that he knew and if I use it on a women to get a number then she probably felt as if she was being manipulated. Just like we all feel when we talk to a slick salesman or a telemarketer who is trying to get a yes from us.

Like when we tell the telemarketer to call back tomorrow and we will be home but we know we won't be around to answer the phone tomorrow. A naive telemarketer will probably call and be surprised that you are not answering your phone like you promised.

I thought a lot about what he said and I think he is right. How many of us are using sales techniques on women and they are turned off by them? David D's number close probably will get you a number from a women but what are the chances she will feel used or tricked by the way you asked?

 

[azanon]

I think a better approach with all this DJ stuff is to just take it all in; meaning read the Bible, then maybe read it again. Read other techniques too. THEN, instead of trying to specifically mimic any specific technique you might have learned, try to just let everything you're reading incorporate itself into your actual being. This way, you will end up doing, speaking, and behaving in a DJ manner all the time. So get that email and phone # in your own DJ, confident way. Remember, YOU have access to a DJ bible and other techniques that 98% of other people don't even utilize.

 

[COD]

sheesh dude..........its the way you intro'd the technique NOT THE TECHNIQUE ITSELF.

YA if it feels like you have a hidden agenda women CAN SMELL THAT FROM A MILE AWAY.

THE key is to BUILD RAPPORT, ESTABLISH TRUST, let her guard down THEN act smooth and get the number.

IF YOU just bull-dog a chic into giving your number most likely she will flake.

THE FLAKE FACTOR is determined on how you got her number in the first place. Thats one OF MANY reasons why women dont call you back, or dont answer their phone.......U just went for the # close and missed the other steps.

You have to transition smoothly into the # close..........

OKAY HERES THE BEST ADVICE I CAN GIVE YA........AUGUST 6TH, VH1---mystery the self proclaimed worlds best pickup artist will be showcasing this technique to young men. Just watch the 8 part show........I seen a few episodes UNCUT already and one of them was THE PROPER WAY TO GET THE CHICS NUMBER.

 

[On Point]

I agree with COD. I also personally think getting a woman's e-mail is a bad idea. Why chat with them through e-mail messages? Just call and plan a date. It makes no sense to me. DeAngelo says if he doesn't e-mail a few times they usually don't call him back. Well, maybe that is a problem with him.

Like COD says, if you build some rapport, they want you to call and go out. E-mailing just doesn't seem very masculine to me.