"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Thoughts on being up front with her.

bruceartest24

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I know this girl for a while and I like her we been out together a lone a few times but I failed to escalate kino. She accepts and rejects get together most of time seems legit.

Feel like I am going to be stuck in the friend zone for good if I don't do something.

What are your thoughts the next time we hang out alone to tell her...that i like her and hanging out with her and want to know if she is interested.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Gangster Of Love

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Never say it, when you can do it.

In Show & Tell, show is the only way to go.

Make a move on her. If she doesn't seem receptive, no need to talk about it. Talking about will only seal your coffin here.
 

youngmack

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Gangster Of Love said:
Never say it, when you can do it.

In Show & Tell, show is the only way to go.

Make a move on her. If she doesn't seem receptive, no need to talk about it. Talking about will only seal your coffin here.

How does he "show" that he likes her? Isn't them going out enough? What moves should he do that will indicate to her that he likes her
 

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he who procrastinates...masturbates! be more sexually assertive with her as others have alluded to, DO NOT sit her down and tell her, whatever chance you have will dissapear before your very eyes.
if you increase the kino, suxual stuff and she doesnt respong accordingly, remove yourself in every sense, dont look back and dont contact her again
 

VladPatton

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The kiss is the deal maker/breaker. You'll have your answer instantly. Get excited about the project, want it, then go for it.

Do NOT be afraid of a rejection. If you don't make a move you will die wondering.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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