Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
That's the traditional view, same as not wearing brown coloured shoes after 6 pm.Omen said:Well i've got all the matching down. Shoes match belt, and belt buckle matches watch.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Actually no. I wear dikies (the real spelling gets ** out so I spelled it wrong) and a company shirt and tennis shoes. I work in a warehouse (retail) and unload and stock crap. I also look like everyone else in my dept. lol. Well the whole store looks alike but I get to wear black cause we get dirty.Analytic said:Omen, no offense but that sounds extremely superficial. It just clothes, you made it sound like some war stories lol. One question though, what's the difference between your work clothes and going out clothes? you obviously were slacks and button down shirts for work and going out. Is it the shoes and belt that is more stylish?