Thoughts on an older plate

[shesabranchswinger]

not older in age even though she is, but older as in years and months.

So she's from 5 or so years back we dated a few months then I went ghost and I moved out of state. 5 years later (a few month ago) we reconnected and it was to much to fast she broke off the sex but still wanted me around. I ghosted again and now she is still contacting me every few weeks trying to keep tabs but last time I tried a few weeks ago to set a meet up she told me she was out of town till mid July. Haven't contacted her since but she left a few strange posts on her wall about love something to the effect of if you don't love yourself you can't love others. She's had some trauma one of her parents died a few years back but she's stoic about it.

I'm not really looking for advice with her as how ever it shake out I'm cool with. I'm just curious as to what you think her mind set is,stable unstable.

 

[The Duke]

Girls like this have bonding/attachment problems as well as issues with self-love and lack coping/problem solving skills. At the core, they are tough to have relationships with. If you keep things pretty surface it usually works, until they develop deeper feelings around the 3month mark.