"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Thoughts on a dating strat.

Comatozed

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As someone that is quite open-minded, passive and apathetic I think I may agree too much with girls on dates and it becomes friendly/nice guy scenario.

I was thinking of starting to use a ploy where I ask an opinion question on something light hearted and then purposefully disagree.

Something like Cats or Dogs, and then playfully but assertively state my preference for the other and tease her for thinking otherwise.

Just to come across more dominant and with a IDGAF what you think attitude. I've noticed girls in other relationships seem to respond well to being told they are wrong/put down etc.

I'll trial it and see how it goes.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Give her a choice. Be like want to eat at x or y. She chooses x then your like. Well too bad I like y better.
 

Between_The_Lines

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Yes, push-pull can be extremely effective.

Learn to pick things out from her and turn it around on her. Say it in a way that arouses doubt over whether or not you might be joking.

"That perfume you're wearing tonight - god it reminds me so much of what my ex stripper gf used to wear. Yeah, she said the clients loved it. I really did too. Glad you chose it. Nice weather tonight huh? I really like what you did with your hair today..."
 
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