"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Thoughts about seeing an ex last night ...

RickR13

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So last night I was on a date with a girl Ive been seeing for about a month. While at the show we ran into another girl I had been dating for a few months before that.

We had stopped seeing each other for about a month or so prior to last night. We had great sex, the feeling was mutual. I screwed up by eventually her losing interest to some beta traits I had been displaying. It ended when she texted me one night saying that she was having emotional issues and anything more than hanging out with friends was too overwhelming for her. Long story short she lost her 4yo daughter recently and has been dealing with that.

She proceeded to say she didn't see the relationship between us working out right now, and best of luck. I went no contact after that and last night was the first time I spoke to her since.

It was a bit awkward and she seemed a bit unsettled that I was there with another girl. One of her friends kind of glared at me like how could I do that. I knew she might be there, but that was not the reason for me bringing another girl.

She sort of sort of stormed away while sarcastically asking if I was a fan of the band we were listening to.

My question is was did I do something wrong here or is she overreacting? She was the one that called off the relationship. I will admit I have a little bit of feelings for her. Should I have not brought this other girl? I dont want to come of as being tacky, but as far as I'm concerned she has no reason to be upset with me right?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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No, you didn't do anything wrong by bringing another girl with you. She ended things with you so you are free to move on with your life.
 

RickR13

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That's how I feel, but her reaction seemed a bit immature. Who knows what she told her friends about how it ended. I have no hard feelings but if anyone should I think it would be me. That's why I was thrown off a little bit.
 
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