Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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thoughts about going out alone

loveknuckle

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Do any of you have stories of going out alone? I’ve done it in the past with success, but I’m reluctant to do it again. My friends are married and/or won’t go out on the town, so I’ve gotten to the point where I think I’m going to go it alone again.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Nelford

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Ive gone out alone plenty of times and had a great time. I even travel alone a few times. This is partly the reason why I don't really care to be in a relationship. The more you don't care about these things it seem the more tail you get.
 

Desdinova

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I do it all the time. My friends are all pvssy-whipped and have to ask the wife if it's okay to do anything. Of course she says no most of the time, or the guy worries too much about pissing her off so he makes excuses not to go out.

There's no point in waiting for friends to have a free night to go out. If I did that, I'd never get out. Instead, I make 'temporary friends' at the places that I go. If they never show up again, oh well. Not only does this ensure that I have someone to have a good time with, I don't end up getting pissed at any of my guy friends for 'standing me up'.

IMO, going out alone is the way to do it.
 

Unbridled_Phoenix

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I go out alone all the time. Like you guys, my friends are pvssy-whipped and don't make good wingmen anyway. We're at the same age where our friends are getting married and lame, for me it strengthens my resolve not to put my balls in a jar.

Desdinova got it right-make the temporary friends at the places you go to. I am fortunate that my one friend who is near my level is now single again so we can go out and sarge like never before.

But I always do my best work alone.
 
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