"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Thought Manifestations

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"Our Thoughts Manifest into Reality."

Let's look a little deeper to see if this is a reality or just another myth.

With every event that takes place, there are two events. The actual event and perception of the event.

If 100 people were to witness an event, there will 100 different perceptions of what this event merits. In other words based on diverse belief systems, everyone will derive a different perception of what this event means to them.

For Example,

Event : Charlie is driving on the highway and a car almost runs him off the road.

Charlie #1 - "That Mothaf*cker, I will get him!"

Charlie #2 -"Wow! That guy is crazy, that was close. Whew."

Charlie#3- "I am going to call the cops, he almost killed me"

Charlie#4 "He must not have seen me, glad there was no accident"

Charlie#5 "He must be having a bad day, I get like that sometimes"


When an event occurs, it is processed through our belief system filtered through our state of mind. In an angry state of mine, an event would be perceived differently than if we were in a positive state of mind.

Our thoughts direct our state of mind and our state of mind directs our thoughts. If we are in a positive mood than our thoughts would be positive. On the same token, if we were to direct our thoughts differently, we can instantenously change our state of mind.

If thoughts can direct our state of mind, than it is safe to say we are in CONTROL of our moods and therefore our perceptions. No one can direct our belief system or mood except for us. Only we CONTROL our thoughts.

Case in point,

Charlie #1 - "That Mothaf*cker, I will get him! He just MADE me furious."

The fact is the only person responsible for making Charlie furious is Charlie. No one MADE Charlie mad. His perception of the event made him mad. Charlie should really correct his statement by saying,

Charlie #1 - "That Mothaf*cker, I will get him! I just MADE me furious." ;)


So what does this have to do with manifesting reality?

I earn over 500K a year selling privately owned investment products. I am a salesman. Here is a few things I have picked up,

When I am in a positive state of mind, my clients always BUY.

When I am in a negative frame of mind, my clients never BUY.

Hmmm, Rocket Science?

My Positive Frame of Mind MANIFESTS into a Sale.

My Negative Frame of Mind MANIFESTS into No Sale.

If a Positive Mind Frame produces income for me,. what do you think I do every morning before I open up the office. I PUT myself into a positive frame of mind. I do so by PERCEIVING events in a positive light.

Why does natural Prize mentality work. Because it is Natural. A man who believes he is truly the prize, thinks and acts accordingly. Women respond positively to this man as a result.

If you think you can, you are right. If you think you cannot, you are right.

Control your thoughts and you will control your reality.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Rollo Tomassi said:
Thanks Napoleon.
Hehe.. you really got a big stick up your ass about Hill, huh?

I guess he doesn't rant enough about the evils of single mom's or how evolution turns women into branch-swinging wh0res for your taste :D
 

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Señor Fingers said:
Hehe.. you really got a big stick up your ass about Hill, huh?

I guess he doesn't rant enough about the evils of single mom's or how evolution turns women into branch-swinging wh0res for your taste :D
I hit a soft spot. Branch swinging wh*res might be his reality due to manifestations of his thought process. :whistle:
 

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I hit a soft spot. Branch swinging wh*res might be his reality due to manifestations of his thought process. :whistle:
This is why I lean towards you being hypocritical. You just posted an example i.e., don't get mad if a car runs you off the road,in your OP of always being positive. Yet within the hour you totally acted contrary to your own advice.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Heheh,..

Lets see,..work for a $60M company,.got it,...own 4200sqft home in Floirda, just bought new Chrysler 300,..got it,..10 y.o. daughter straight A student,...got it,..married for 12 years to a woman who could model swimsuits now,..got it,..

So,...what am I missing now? Oh yeah, thoughts manifest reality,..ok, go it.


Funny thing,..the harder I work the "luckier" I seem to be,...
 

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Congrats Rollo,

I was a millionaire 7 times over in my twenties. Maybe I should abandon my ship and jump aboard your evolutional ways. :D
 

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ketostix said:
You just posted an example i.e., don't get mad if a car runs you off the road,in your OP of always being positive.
Don't worry Keto, you are still my number one fan.
 

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The internet's full of millionaire, rockstars, curing cancer and having 3 ways.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Rollo Tomassi said:
The internet's full of millionaire, rockstars, curing cancer and having 3 ways.

That's really amazing, because I just did all of those things today!
 

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Next thread, I'll be sure to speak about evolution as to keep it in the Mature Forum.

What happened?
It was predetermined in my genetic code to take a few risks and lose it. But my genetic make up forced me to rise up again as evolution had it's plan for me. My only concern is getting there once again will make me a single mother magnet which I cannot avoid because NATURE MADE ME DO IT.
 

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Agree with rollo because buddah and everyone else was wrong about this.
 
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