"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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thought i was txting a hot girl i met @ a club...ended up being her dad!!! HELPP

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omg guys, soo this girl tht i got her # and was txting her....and i was gettin txt's back from her....said sum naughty things bt nothing 2 bad. umm i get a call on my cell...its private name private number...its her dad, and he says that he enjoyed talking for the past 30 mins with me...asked 4 1 of my parents and i said they're not home...and then he said "u're here from me later...thank you very much..."


HELP WHAT DO I DO?? MY PARNETS DNT EVEN KNO I WAS @ THIS CLUB...WHAT CAN I DO/WHAT SHOULD I SAY? PLEASE HELP ME!!!!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Colin O'Brien

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That's like a cop pulling you over, giving you vodka, then arresting you for drunk driving. Her dad is totally ****ed up. Well the guy has your name and phone number, but thats pretty much it right? How's he gonna talk to your parents? I personally would just abandon all contact with that entire family... one hot girl isn't worth having to deal with a parent that messed up.
 
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WesCottII

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Psssh. Only gonna get to your 'rents if you hand them the phone.

Laugh at the jerk and put the phone down, absolutley nothing he can do.
 
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Hey dude maybe he likes you! I say go for it, hes probably a keeper!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Lol wtf, you didn't do anything wrong man, don't sweat it. This dude is clearly a weirdo.

How old are you? If anything, it's him that's in the wrong for dirty talkng a minor :crackup:
 
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Why would SHE give YOU the number of her dad?

Something smells fishy here!

Just cut contact with the entire family.

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just so suave

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LOL! If he wants to play ball, then game on...next time he calls just drop lines like 'Geez i can see what (daughters name) meant about you being a control freak', 'I thought she was over reacting at first, but now I don't blame her for wanting to run away'.

Of course it's a whole different sandwich if he has your house number...
 
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it was her # cz she asked me 2 put my # in her phone first than she jst called me from her phone. lol 2 b hnst i dnt rlly care...if anything were to happen with me and her it'd jst b a booty call. and she's 1 of many haha so i'm not worried about her. we have 1 teen night every month..they'll b more next time i'll hit up.
 
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niceguy91 said:
it was her # cz she asked me 2 put my # in her phone first than she jst called me from her phone. lol 2 b hnst i dnt rlly care...if anything were to happen with me and her it'd jst b a booty call. and she's 1 of many haha so i'm not worried about her. we have 1 teen night every month..they'll b more next time i'll hit up.
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well dat b np bcuz u jst want a fb n #

gaime on!@!!

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Maybe it's her phone, but her dad took it from her. There is nothing that he can do. You should probably loose the number though.
 
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lol at this whole shenanigan. Wow.
 
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ouch youre scrwed. Not sure how your parents will react but you might be heading for a tough time with this girl. Cuz now that he knows you he might watch his daughter's every move. Sorry....
 
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It probably wasn't even her dad but one of her friends trying to fvck with you b/c she wants you to leave her alone or just for pure amusement.

I can barely read your posts. Learn how to spell/type. Thread Closed
 
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