My advice to you is to cold approach uglier/more psychologically compromised women (you'll be able to tell which girls are BPD/bipolar sometimes just by this glassy eye look that they have). Come back to me in a few weeks and complain about how you're not getting laid, 'cause honestly it's going to be very difficult to not get laid given that you have a bare minimum non-asperger's level of social skills.
Honestly, if you're an average guy and want to bang the hotties completely using social skills (i.e. game), but don't want to work out, learn how to recognize the behaviors of someone with bipolar/BPD. Go to a BPD support group.
I mean, c'mon, getting laid through the cold approach is hard enough, and now throw on the added difficulty level of chasing the 8 or 9 with extremely high standards and your probability of getting laid drops even further. Even someone as insanely good looking, confident, charming, and most likely wealthy as Paul Janka only ****s 11% of the numbers he gets (you can be damn sure this guy is only chasing >6's) and he's approaching extraordinary amounts of women.
My friend recently got into pickup and has been approaching tons of sets in the local college library. This guy is f'ugly (just imagine the biggest dork ever, that's him). Now I'm of the belief that cold approaching set after set at your university's library is sorta creepy, but I've joined him on his sarging adventures here a few times. One evening, the sets were honestly not that attractive, but we did it anyways just for kicks. Guess what? We closed every single two set out of 6, and several of the numbers were solid. My buddy got a date out of this (I totally would've banged the girl, but he said he wasn't interested and complained she was too tall), and I also got one. I didn't go on my date, though, as I'm really not interested in ****ing a most likely virginal 6 and then totally ditching her. I'm a 24 yr old graduate student, I have 3 years left at this school, I don't want to get a bad reputation.
Regardless, the pattern I'm noticing is that outside of the mentally compromised hotties, I cannot cold approach pull hot chicks simply through the confidence act (aka game) and dressing well. I can totally cold approach pull non-mentally compromised <7's. If the hottie is mentally compromised, the sky is the limit (ex girlfriend turned heads, she looked like Natalie Portman).
Here's another interesting thing I'm finding. Remember that totally dorky looking guy I mentioned? I'd personally say that his game is MUCH better than mine. He has the confidence to open girls not giving him any signals, I rarely open girls not giving me non-verbal signals. I rarely get good responses when I cold approach girls not giving me non-verbal signals, yet he does. But guess what? As soon as I jump into an interaction as his wingman, the attention begins to wander over towards me. This guy's game is almost just as good as mine, honestly. What's the difference? I'm better looking than him.
I'm not saying that looks trump everything (they don't; status is HUGE), but god damn, they are more important than TD or any PUA scammer would ever lead you to believe.
Outside of a basic set of social skills, some confidence to approach, and an ability to read very simple non-verbal signals, there isn't much to this unless you have an autism spectrum disorder or have suffered from extremely low self-esteem.
Honestly, if you're an average guy and want to bang the hotties completely using social skills (i.e. game), but don't want to work out, learn how to recognize the behaviors of someone with bipolar/BPD. Go to a BPD support group.
I mean, c'mon, getting laid through the cold approach is hard enough, and now throw on the added difficulty level of chasing the 8 or 9 with extremely high standards and your probability of getting laid drops even further. Even someone as insanely good looking, confident, charming, and most likely wealthy as Paul Janka only ****s 11% of the numbers he gets (you can be damn sure this guy is only chasing >6's) and he's approaching extraordinary amounts of women.
My friend recently got into pickup and has been approaching tons of sets in the local college library. This guy is f'ugly (just imagine the biggest dork ever, that's him). Now I'm of the belief that cold approaching set after set at your university's library is sorta creepy, but I've joined him on his sarging adventures here a few times. One evening, the sets were honestly not that attractive, but we did it anyways just for kicks. Guess what? We closed every single two set out of 6, and several of the numbers were solid. My buddy got a date out of this (I totally would've banged the girl, but he said he wasn't interested and complained she was too tall), and I also got one. I didn't go on my date, though, as I'm really not interested in ****ing a most likely virginal 6 and then totally ditching her. I'm a 24 yr old graduate student, I have 3 years left at this school, I don't want to get a bad reputation.
Regardless, the pattern I'm noticing is that outside of the mentally compromised hotties, I cannot cold approach pull hot chicks simply through the confidence act (aka game) and dressing well. I can totally cold approach pull non-mentally compromised <7's. If the hottie is mentally compromised, the sky is the limit (ex girlfriend turned heads, she looked like Natalie Portman).
Here's another interesting thing I'm finding. Remember that totally dorky looking guy I mentioned? I'd personally say that his game is MUCH better than mine. He has the confidence to open girls not giving him any signals, I rarely open girls not giving me non-verbal signals. I rarely get good responses when I cold approach girls not giving me non-verbal signals, yet he does. But guess what? As soon as I jump into an interaction as his wingman, the attention begins to wander over towards me. This guy's game is almost just as good as mine, honestly. What's the difference? I'm better looking than him.
I'm not saying that looks trump everything (they don't; status is HUGE), but god damn, they are more important than TD or any PUA scammer would ever lead you to believe.
Outside of a basic set of social skills, some confidence to approach, and an ability to read very simple non-verbal signals, there isn't much to this unless you have an autism spectrum disorder or have suffered from extremely low self-esteem.