Those nights when you're not yourself...

[Dgwizdal]

Ever have those nights when you are NOT the man? Usually I can go to the bar with a bunch of bros, dominate the social scene with random girls or those who are in your circle, and go home at the end of the night and rail pu$$y. Tonight wasn't one of those nights. Probably the first day/night in 4 months where I wasn't the prize.

Feels like $hit. I know everyone has their "off" days. Is it better to eject when caught in the wrong mentality and regroup or push forward through the mental block?

 

[usernamedox11]

this won't be helpful to you, but who cares? I would focus more on career oriented goals rather than be hung up on whether you impress dumb skanks at the bar.

 

[Gunner26]

It happens, for whatever reason you go out and you're just not in the mood. It becomes worse once you realise you aren't acting like yourself and then you try to force it, which always ends badly. The longer you think about not being in the zone the worse it gets. In my opinion it's best to just let it go, and try again another night.

I've found on nights where I'm just not really feeling it, is to try and forget about it, stop talking to random girls, stop trying to be the one dominating proceedings and just kick back and relax. Focus on having a good time with your mates. Normally after an hour or so of just chilling with my friends and having a good time I'm back to normal, ready to go again.

When you try to force it, people can tell, and it's off putting. Much better to go and relax and regroup, then come back out feeling yourself again.

Gunner

 

[adam225]

I didn't feel myself New Year's Eve for some reason. I felt a bit anxious and on edge for some weird reason. I wasn't out to pull though - just to enjoy myself. I guess we all get our bad days/moments...