"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Thoroughly confusing situation, would like an outside opinion

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Some Call Me Tim

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Hey everyone,

It's been a few months down my journey of self discovery, and I've encountered a situation that I have no idea how to handle. There is this girl who is a long term friend of mine, we always had a flirty relationship, and I put the moves on her a couple weeks ago, with success. We're making out, grabbing asses, rolling around in bed, but the second I tried to take her shirt off to have sex she pumps she brakes.

I figured she wasn't that into me, fair enough, so I've been keeping my distance. She keeps calling and texting to hang out, by which she means make out and keep it pg-13. This girl is no saint, I know that she's had sex before, and she seems keen on me, but she gives nothing. I asked her what the deal was, and she threw up 'body issues'. I find it difficult to believe that, given things she's told me about her and other guys.

I'm not sure if persistence is needed or if I'm just wasting my time and should move on. What do you all think? :rock:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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she just nneed s abit more reassurnace that you wont think the $lut is a $lut! she knows what she wants and will put out for you but...your her friend and you wont respect her, next time, tell her its special between the two of you, its what we both feel, this is a special thing betwen us...and sh!t like that, when she resists, pull away then start again.
 
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