"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Thoroughly confusing situation, would like an outside opinion

Some Call Me Tim

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Hey everyone,

It's been a few months down my journey of self discovery, and I've encountered a situation that I have no idea how to handle. There is this girl who is a long term friend of mine, we always had a flirty relationship, and I put the moves on her a couple weeks ago, with success. We're making out, grabbing asses, rolling around in bed, but the second I tried to take her shirt off to have sex she pumps she brakes.

I figured she wasn't that into me, fair enough, so I've been keeping my distance. She keeps calling and texting to hang out, by which she means make out and keep it pg-13. This girl is no saint, I know that she's had sex before, and she seems keen on me, but she gives nothing. I asked her what the deal was, and she threw up 'body issues'. I find it difficult to believe that, given things she's told me about her and other guys.

I'm not sure if persistence is needed or if I'm just wasting my time and should move on. What do you all think? :rock:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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she just nneed s abit more reassurnace that you wont think the $lut is a $lut! she knows what she wants and will put out for you but...your her friend and you wont respect her, next time, tell her its special between the two of you, its what we both feel, this is a special thing betwen us...and sh!t like that, when she resists, pull away then start again.
 
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